Yelling

[Evie loves Sam]

Of course. Even a peanutbutter & jelly sandwich is abusive sometimes. Context is what matters.

Can you explain 'context is what matters' a bit to me Friday? I broke at being poked repeatedly and could not take anymore and yelled and was called abusive for yelling.

 

[Evie loves Sam]

Guess I want to know why supporters stay. If we lose it sometimes and yell.

 

[Torch]

This thread touches on the topic of dysregulation.
Might be suitable for the discussion here.

The negative emotional games people play

Mar 31, 2025

I'm starting to realise one thing that I found very upsetting as a child (especially growing up in a traumatic environment) was observing the negative emotional games people play...

As a child, I found this especially distressing to observe in adults... I found children and animals to be much more natural and congruent in their emotional expression...

From a very early age, I could "see" what people were feeling and I remember being startled by the discrepancies of what people feel VS think VS say VS act... (most of all adults)...

So, for example, as a young child, I could see that...

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