You Put Your Left Foot In... You Put Your Left Foot Out...

[Akufu]

Finding it really difficult to feel committed to the relationship atm. Feel like the whole thing is one minor disagreement away from being over. Felt like that for about a year. Only two years into this. No stability. Lurching from crisis to crisis. No communication. What's the point in discussing things if nothing changes.

 

[Ruvug]

What drew you to each other in the beginning? Is that still part of your lives? Do you both feel that way? Can you have an open discussion about your relationship with this person? Wishing you the best.

 

[Rabo]

((Hugs)) Does your partner know you are that close to the end of your tether?

 

[Akufu]

OP here.

I have no idea if he realises it. I have said so I couple of times, but am simply told to stop my sooking.

Every time I try to talk to him about it he gets defensive and shuts down the conversation. On the rare times when I feel I've gotten through to him he promises to do better in the future and that lasts about a week.

Thanks for the hugs - I could use them!

 

[Ona]

So sorry. I know exactly how this feels. Wish I had answers for you.