Relationship Keep Trying Or Give Up?

[irisvgv]

PTSD or not, if you tolerate being lied to or having a significant other actively on a dating site while da...

He has nightmares, is unable to be in a room with a lot of people, forgets things, doesn't socialize well in public, prefer to stay home rather than go out. Are some things I've noticed.

 

[irisvgv]

I think that's fine for him to engage in relationships with others if he breaks up with you, and doe...

I do tell him that him walking away)moving out has created a trusting issue just because he leaves and don't care about financial responsibility he leaves behind. And every time he comes back I just ask myself will he leave again. He tells me that yes I leave but I always come back. And he does

 

[irisvgv]

What do you mean by him talking to one particular female and how are you aware of this? If's a co-wo...

I have seen his social media account n have read the msgs.

 

[Gs172003]

Missy-I like that you tell it like you see it....short and sweet. Will you counsel me? lol I mean it, I n...

I have been through alot. I wish I had somebody tell me that crap years ago lol

 

[Gs172003]

I do tell him that him walking away)moving out has created a trusting issue just because he leaves and...

No. Just no. He leaves because he knows you'll be waiting on him. You don't deserve that and his PTSD is not an excuse. If he is wanting to get treatment and come back later IF you are available GREAT but you need to be away from this guy. Seriously.

 

[Thizette]

Hello, everyone. Well I have been dating an active duty soldier. By November it will be a year. Both hi...

Talking to women will have to happen, because you both live in the world. There is nothing wrong with him talking to or interacting with women who aren't you.

There IS a problem if he's actively seeking romantic or sexual relationships outside of your relationship, if you have not agreed to an open relationship. If that's what he's doing, leave.

 

[joeylittle]

@irisvgv - has he been diagnosed with PTSD, or are you guessing that he has PTSD?

 

[irisvgv]

@irisvgv - has he been diagnosed with PTSD, or are you guessing that he has PTSD?...

Well he told me he had PTSD. I really haven't seen medical records yet aren't certain diagnosis that will prevent from getting jobs in the military?

 

[irisvgv]

Talking to women will have to happen, because you both live in the world. There is nothing wrong with...

We never agree to seeking other people. But he is. He tells me he isn't looking for a replacement yet I know he is talking to another girl. I've read the msgs. But she has no clue about me.

 

[Ronin]

There IS a problem if he's actively seeking romantic or sexual relationships outside of your relationship, if you have not agreed to an open relationship. If that's what he's doing, leave.

This, & thank you. Couldn't find the darned words for the same concept.

 

[Gs172003]

We never agree to seeking other people. But he is. He tells me he isn't looking for a replacement yet I...

You've answered your own question

 

[irisvgv]

What do you mean by him talking to one particular female and how are you aware of this? If's a co-wo...

I have access to his account and I have read the conversation