J_trustno1
Diamond Member
I come from a dysfunctional family. There’s been domestic violence so we moved to another country to live near my mothers family (i.e., her parents and siblings, brother or sister in laws).
I faced first hand physical, emotional, and verbal abuse from her sisters and brother, sexual abuse from her pedophile brother-in-law. I developed anxiety, depression, ptsd, fibromyalgia, hashimotos, eating disorders, diverticulitis and you name it as result of this abuse.
The sad part is, my parents are in great terms with my abusers despite knowing everything that happened to me. My mother never treated my cousins (i.e., her nieces and nephews from her siblings side of the family) but her siblings and brother in laws were a**holes towards me. My mother attends all their good and bad days. She sees them regularly, visits them if they are ill or injured. On contrary, I am the blacksheep, I am pretty much cut off from her siblings.
It really hurts and pisses me off how my mother can care about my cousins and her sisters despite knowing that they don’t give a shit about me. I had a bad injury, then traumatic birth and another surgery to remove retained placenta but none of her siblings or my cousins gave shit about it. But when something happens on their side, she goes running to them.
I feel betrayed by my own mother. I feel disgusted and disappointed. I would never do this if someone treated my child like this. I would cut ties off such people.
This really breaks my heart and I feel cheated
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I faced first hand physical, emotional, and verbal abuse from her sisters and brother, sexual abuse from her pedophile brother-in-law. I developed anxiety, depression, ptsd, fibromyalgia, hashimotos, eating disorders, diverticulitis and you name it as result of this abuse.
The sad part is, my parents are in great terms with my abusers despite knowing everything that happened to me. My mother never treated my cousins (i.e., her nieces and nephews from her siblings side of the family) but her siblings and brother in laws were a**holes towards me. My mother attends all their good and bad days. She sees them regularly, visits them if they are ill or injured. On contrary, I am the blacksheep, I am pretty much cut off from her siblings.
It really hurts and pisses me off how my mother can care about my cousins and her sisters despite knowing that they don’t give a shit about me. I had a bad injury, then traumatic birth and another surgery to remove retained placenta but none of her siblings or my cousins gave shit about it. But when something happens on their side, she goes running to them.
I feel betrayed by my own mother. I feel disgusted and disappointed. I would never do this if someone treated my child like this. I would cut ties off such people.
This really breaks my heart and I feel cheated
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