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I'm aware of mouth breathers but I account that they may not realize it and that has to be ok. I hope you know that I'm not perfect and I'm sure I do things other people think are annoying but I know it's my PTSD symptoms and I have to figure out how to manage them and not be irritated with other people. Thank you for your kind words.my hyper-active metabolism makes sensory overload an ongoing possibility. i am relieved to report i have hearing issues which keep sound sensitivity from being much of a problem, but sound-sensitive people are an on-going source of terror for me. i work quite hard to keep my mouth-breathing self socially distant from sound sensitive people. i shoot to spot sound-sensitive meanies long before they have a chance to be offended by who and what i am. i smell ya coming. i spot the cruel chisels in your face as soon as you come in the door. etc., etc. i often imagine i can read the insults you are preparing to spew at my mouth-breathing imperfection. you'll probably be offended if my imperfect ears can't catch every insult.
in my psychotherapy sessions we call this, "hyper-vigilance." it is one of my meanest ptsd symptoms. emphasis on, "mean." i get meaner than a rattlesnake at a rattlesnake round-up when i am hyper-vigilant and feeling the sensory overloads.
the previous posts have outlined quite a few of the tools i use to manage this symptom. i mostly wanted to let you know you are not alone. it's okay if you reject empathy from a mouth breather. i'm used to it.