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I Betrayed my family
By walking away from their crazy abusive behavior ( NC)
So I’m not a loyal person, not good enough to belong anywhere else-not loveable, and so different I never will belong anywhere.
Counter only because I have a similar thing: they were who they were before you got there (parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents) and you are not responsible for the rest (brother, sister, cousin) unless they are much younger and even then not so much.