@mumstheword Maybe separate?
As unpopular opinions don't yet mean unpopular person...
And there is a difference of *why* some opinions get objected. It's not necessarily about "popularity", but how well something conforms to facts or the impact it has on actual people... where people may honor both actualness and people's lives by objection...
... and that has no bearing on how they feel about the speaker or respect them as a person. :sneaky:
@airdog Relate to belonging issues cutting especially deep, even more if you are from different cultural background / literally migrant to where you are...
But all the kudos on amazing identification of a core belief :D
And you pretty much shown you belong in this thread of people trying to wrap heads round core beliefs, too. :sneaky:
As unpopular opinions don't yet mean unpopular person...
And there is a difference of *why* some opinions get objected. It's not necessarily about "popularity", but how well something conforms to facts or the impact it has on actual people... where people may honor both actualness and people's lives by objection...
... and that has no bearing on how they feel about the speaker or respect them as a person. :sneaky:
@airdog Relate to belonging issues cutting especially deep, even more if you are from different cultural background / literally migrant to where you are...
But all the kudos on amazing identification of a core belief :D
And you pretty much shown you belong in this thread of people trying to wrap heads round core beliefs, too. :sneaky: