Do You Have A Lovely Female Model?

[Deleted member 34535]

Yes, I know I am on an island on this one so first let me explain from where I find my viewpoint on this one. As a victim of child abuse, I have absolutely no social circle. I have 3 DNA family members that are living but I have nothing to do with them either for very good reasons. You will have to trust me on this one.Well, I guess you can cuss me out too. That works for me too. So being that I have absolutely no social life at all, you know where I am coming from. By the way, don't pity me in the least for my lack of socialness. It will get better. But peace and quiet and no drama is not bad either.

I am a driver, and as a driver I get to see what people are up to out there in the real world. It is unmistakable how goofy people are with their cell phones. They are absolutely possessed by their stupid phones. I got off of FB about 2 years ago. One of the so-called DNA family members put up one of those stupid posters that called me a Hater. The DNA member in question was attempting to impress a boyfriend of the opposite race, which I could care less about. The DNAer in question was whining about how the member of the opposite race was treating her. I was just telling her she did not have to put up with that, she was better than that. Oh yes, the DNAer drove halfway across the state to be with the BF in Question after whining about all of the BF's transgressions. After I was called a Hater, I dropped FB like a hot tamale. Never, and I mean never, to return.

So we have the wonderful cell phones, FB, Instagram, Twitter, and let's never forget those awesome dating sites. Oh yes, I too was on the dating sites like a dufus. In my experience, yes I did go out on a few dates. But I think most of the beautiful ladies on there just wanted their phone to vibrate in their lap. And yes, I dropped the dating sites never to return. I was voted "Most Unpopular Man in America," a title I hold to this day and will probably never give up.

So what is the purpose of this thread you may ask. As antisocial and unpopular as I am, I don't think I am missing out on anything at all. I seems that people think they can say anything at all to a computer or a phone, but they would never say these things to someone face to face. There is much good that comes from social media. People that live miles away from one another can keep in contact with one another. But I think if we are really honest, the vast majority of social media is self-centered, one way, and in many instances down right mean. The forum on MYPTSD is very structured and monitored. I have been here only for a little while, but I find it to be very nice so far. Just for me, I find the others that I mentioned to have no redeeming qualities. Just being the casual observer that I am, it seems that people are almost married to their phones. So for me and just me, when they come up with a lovely anatomically correct female model and I can choose the body style, I will consider marrying one.

 

[Neverthesame]

The idea of the sexy robot lives on! :tup:

 

[sedna]

Yes, I know I am on an island on this one so first let me explain from where I find my viewpoint on...

I'm going to take a stab in the dark here, and cautiously suggest that your ' relating style' is more of the hurdle, than the messages you may be trying to get across with people sometimes. A little careful articulation is usually not wasted effort, although it can feel like a burden when you're used to just letting thoughts fly out of your mouth like bats from a dungeon. I have to work hard on that myself, ' Hater ' is kind of unimaginative and generic now, people get a little more creative with me about my unapologetic opinions. I've also noticed that people that make the biggest deal out of me being scary or rude, are always people that scared me first. Who knows what that means.

Anyway, I can suggest, using phrases like " a certain race .." is a little like dumping your own drink over your head before the other guy does it. It's just not the best time in our country to make comments like that. Also, I'm assuming you're over 40, most of us over 40 secretly/ hate/ fear/ or feel some bitterness towards the opposite sex if we are single and had bad childhoods. Every time a guy is interested in me, I let him know that I have zero faith that every man isnt secretly psycho, stupid, or sexually deviant. If I ever decide I would like to date, I'm going to have to knock that off, because I can see the interest leave their face within seconds.

You dont have to fake being different than you are, or pretend different opinions to be more instantly likeable, just turn the dial on the bluntness down a notch.

In the meantime, Japan makes anatomically correct female companions that pretty much have the capability of iphones. They're kind of pricey though.

 

[Deleted member 34535]

I will have the letter (N) removed from her programming.

 

[Riot]

I will have the letter (N) removed from her programming.

Say what? :O_o:

 

[Deleted member 34535]

Coco9, you completely lost me on that one, but thank you just the same.

 

[sedna]

Coco9, you completely lost me on that one, but thank you just the same.

Dont use the N word. Dont say anything negative about women in general. Dont mention wanting a phone you can sleep with. These basic concepts should open up some possibilities for you. Sorry I made it complicated. ;)

 

[Deleted member 34535]

Never say the complicated word known as "NO". Not happening. There are negative things that pertain to both males and females. As for your other statement, "Whatever!

 

[sedna]

Never say the complicated word known as "NO". Not happening. There are negative things that pertain...

I thought you meant the OTHER N word :laugh: If your going to already 'whatever' me than never mind. :facepalm: all your posts will be talking to the hand.

 

[Friday]

So for me and just me, when they come up with a lovely anatomically correct female model and I can choose the body style, I will consider marrying one.

Visions of Battlestar Galactica "6" dance in my head ;)

 

[Freedomfighter]

Yes, I know I am on an island on this one so first let me explain from where I find my viewpoint on...

I have to agree that people are completely crazy about their phones. Them phones are simple tools but it seems many think that their phone is a sort of life style.

Due to me being a stalking victim, and especially after having been threatened with rape repeatedly, I actually barricade the door at night. My social circle consists of people that really understand what PTSD is all about, like this website. I would not talk to other people anyways because someone that does not understand what a PTSD victim goes through is not interesting to me.
I pretend to socialize with other people, but I am just pretending, holding my head over water. One has to be social, but yet the grieving for my recently lost mom and my astonishment of how cruel stalkers can be and how dangerous they can be is all done in my private time.

I only watch on the computer what is interesting and yes I get triggered so I have to be very careful with that. Our society has not gotten better, rather the opposite. The animals around us are evolving, getting smarter, but it seems humans are developing at a much slower rate.

I can not be friends with anyone and that is partly due to the fact that stalkers will get close to everyone the victim socializes with so I literally have to stay away from people.

I am intensively introverted and find that almost all of the people I meet on a daily basis could not ever come close to me being really interested what they are talking about anyways.
I find this group very nice and interesting, it is helpful being able to communicate with other people that are suffering from the same disease and I find it wonderful if I am able to give some good advice to fellow PTSD sufferers as well.

And yes, I enjoy watching music presentations from both male and female stars, but very selectively.
Most of the artists I enjoy are musical artists, which includes ballet, classical, and dancing. I looove that.
When it comes to artists I enjoy music groups and I suppose most of them are also from my country of origin.

I am a big fan of Nena, a german singer, she was part of a musical genre I used to listen to when I grew up as a teen.
Watched a video of her that I had not seen before and she was performing a music number with Kim Wilde.

I have never seen such disparities between singers like that before and I found it interesting to study.
Compared to Kim Wilde, now that is of course my humble opinion, Nena just sparkled and put on a much more intense and much more interesting performance. I found it interesting that the other singer seemed to pale compared to Nena, it was strange. Two very different styles, but I was pretty sure that some just have a much more powerful presence then others.