DeepRedViolets
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I used to get drunk and then seek out closure from my pst abusers all I can say is AWFUL IDEA. The abusive person will never admit to what they did they will blame you and tell you you’re crazy and then they will tell you 4 different versions of what happened in the same sitting. They will try and make you crazy and they will try and make you question your memory and they will try and make it
Your fault. I had a boyfriend pin me down and rip out chucks of my hair while repeating over and over again for me to “toughen up” and when He finally let me go he threw me onto his bed and said that is why I’m a man and you are a f*cking woman’s when I tried to get closure he told me a couple diff things ....one that he was just trying to get the knots out of my hair, because I don’t brush it (bullshit there were f*cking chunks of my hair all over his floor) the other was that I just let it happen like a little doll the third was that never happened . I will never ever ask any abuser for closure because to put it extremely nicely you can’t reason with unreasonable people. They are not like us. They are sick individuals
Your fault. I had a boyfriend pin me down and rip out chucks of my hair while repeating over and over again for me to “toughen up” and when He finally let me go he threw me onto his bed and said that is why I’m a man and you are a f*cking woman’s when I tried to get closure he told me a couple diff things ....one that he was just trying to get the knots out of my hair, because I don’t brush it (bullshit there were f*cking chunks of my hair all over his floor) the other was that I just let it happen like a little doll the third was that never happened . I will never ever ask any abuser for closure because to put it extremely nicely you can’t reason with unreasonable people. They are not like us. They are sick individuals