Hugs
@Thunderstorm. I suspect that my guy did this as well during a pretty rocky period at the start of our relationship. He didn't say as much, but once we were on a more solid footing, and we were doing some (slight racy) texting, he asked for a pic. I said "oh, you don't still have the one I sent you?" and he said "No :-(" so I read between the lines on that one. I never asked why so I can't give much of an insight. However, there was a point in time where I didn't speak to him at all for a week because he had cancelled on me yet again. So he may well have gotten the impression that I was through with him and deleted the photo then (Admittedly I was pretty mad - cos it had been about 6 weeks since we'd spent time alone together).
It's not a nice feeling, is it? But as
@Momofthree says, it only takes a moment to delete the photo, and then it's done and you can't get it back. For all you know, he might have regretted it straightaway after doing it.
Feeling a bit crappy today myself. Had plans to see my guy tonight, but I got a message from him just now saying he'd prefer tomorrow night cos he's got too much on, gotta get up early tomorrow cos he's going to do something with his dad, blah blah. *sigh*. He doesn't cancel on me that often any more, but every time he does I wonder if he's about to start withdrawing on me again. We spend every weekend together and then catch up once during the week as well. I have been trying to make it twice a week, but I guess he's not ready for that yet. This is typical behaviour from him - he always takes a hundred years to commit to each next step in our relationship. I'll be pretty pissed if he cancels on me tomorrow as well though. Now I have to try to write a message back that doesn't sound peevish :grumpy:
