Am I being unfair?
Or is this ok?
It DOES crack me up that your knee jerk is YOU are being unfair (to whom???), when it’s your mom unfairly dumping ON you.But I text my middle sister, who lives the same distance to them as I do (if not a bit closer) , and mum hadn't asked her for help. Just me.
Which is old patterns. Always me that was made to manage everyone's situation.
Good on recognising scripts & schemas in play.