I Need Some Help With Something Quite Serious :/

[RednBlack]

My good friend died lately, and I've had another close friend get cancer. Lately I've been getting nightmares that are horrible to do with my late friend and ill friend, but they are so bad that I get scared to go to sleep. I'm tired quite a lot because once I'm in one of these dreams I'll sleep right through the night and every single second of it will feel real. :(

Please could somebody help me out? Thank you.

 

[intothelight]

Hi RednBlack,

Welcome to the PTSD Forum. Your post didn't indicate whether or not you have been diagnosed, but if something is disturbing your daily life, it is a good idea to get it checked out. There are several threads/posts here that deal with insomnia and sleep problems and you may find something useful.

If you have PTSD, the stress of death and illness can cause symptoms to flair up. I am sorry for the loss of your friend.

Take care.
Debbie

 

[Froggie]

So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend and having to deal with a very ill friend. I do agree with Debbie, if your symptoms are too harsh, it is a good idea to consult - be it meds and/or therapy. You seem to be young to go through this kind of ordeal. Best of luck.

 

[RednBlack]

Thank you for replying and so sorry its in the wrong place im new to this site and wasnt sure :/ Hmm yeah its hard im young but strong im used to it and things that are more personal and for family only ive had to deal with its not too easy yes people have had it a lot worse than me i just struggle sometimes since these nightmares are so vivid and play on the sensitive spots of my mind. Anyway thank you for the help its appreciated :)

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

I'm sorry that you are having such nightmares! Being able to sleep well is so important to the quality of life! If you have a doctor, maybe you should see him/her? There are resources available, so don't give up!!
Sending blessings and prayers your way!

 

[Srain]

RednBlack, I agree that the sooner you see a professional the better. That was a horrific thing to see and I'm so very sorry for your loss. The fact that you are experiencing these types of dreams are surely disturbing and I don't blame you for trying to seek answers.

When I have those types of dreams they are what is called 'Night Terrors'. You can look them up online and see if they fit what you are experiencing. I've had these since I was a child.

I hope this helps you.

Peace,
Rain

 

[RednBlack]

Thank you very much angelkeep and srain im not too keen on seeing anyone about it but if it continues i will definately do so. Its something hard to live with and there are other things that appear in these dreams but i dont want to speak that out they are more family concerned illnesses etc. Thank you again i really do appreciate your help! Thanks again :)