Relationship Jealousy

[Sighs]

My vet has a tendency to get angry with me if another man shows the slightest bit of interest. I know I do not flirt or in any way encourage other men.

In the three years we have been together, it has happened three times.

The first time my vet told me he didn't love me anymore and we should break up. He later apologised and said "I made a target error and lashed out at you instead of telling the bloke to pull his head in". The second time he made snide remarks about "my boyfriend".

Recently I have been helping a vet he served with in my professional capacity. It's not that uncommon for clients to have a crush on you when you sit there listening to all their woes and take steps to assist them. But this idiot is sending my vet text messages like "Sighs is amazing. You're a very lucky man!". This is making my vet cranky with me. Just shows that no good deed goes unpunished!

Guess I'm just venting...

 

[Astrid_Shadow]

@Sighs Ouch. Thats gotta really suck but its good to get it off your chest. If you ever need someone to talk to or a hug,I'm always here. I wish I could say more to help you. Jealousy really brings out the worst in people.

 

[Ronin]

Not much in the way of words, but <support>, @Sighs. Let it out, friend.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

But this idiot is sending my vet text messages like "Sighs is amazing. You're a very lucky man!". This is making my vet cranky with me. Just shows that no good deed goes unpunished!

This guy is creepy, I hope that there is a way to discontinue seeing him, I think the more distance you can create between him and your husband the better, it sounds like a stalker and is very, very inappropriate and I can see why your guy is jealous.

Keep on venting away. :hug: