Well I have been waiting for 3 months now and today finally we got the pre-approval!!!!!! Whoo hoo!!! i just talked to to the real estate agent and he is going to bring over a list for us to look at on thursday afternoon.If we can find something quick and something that is suitable i could be out of here in about two months, give or take. Thank goodness, good news, it is finally over, this year of living in hell and i am going to own my own home again!!!!!! i am so excited..what does not kill us can only make us stronger...that for sure applies here, i think i have been feeling like i was not going to make it but we did and now on to my new life, new future and security.