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Reluctant To Apply For Ssi/ssdi, Experiences Anyone?

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I agree. Work kept me so busy and stressed that I was able to stay in crisis mode and cope. After years of this though, I crashed and when I couldn't work anymore I was lost.

Being approved for Social Security gave me the time that I need to heal as well as the validation that I needed to know that I'm worth it.
 
Thank you MovinOn, I definitely could use the time to heal. I guess it is just hard to accept support for me at times.

I can relate to feeling lost, because once you don't have or cannot handle working any longer you have nothing. With that comes the feeling of being lost as to what to do now. It's a really intense feeling that is hard to describe for me, but I am sure you know what I mean.

Is that your dog? If so it is cute, kind of reminds me of a fox. I took a similar picture last night of my dog except her tongue is hanging from the side lol. I love when dogs look like they are smiling, it makes you feel all gooey and bubbly inside. Dogs are the best, I love them.
 
Yes, my life is definitely better on SSDI.

For your information, if you're on the lower end of SSDI you may qualify for other benefits as well. I have no Medicare co-pay because my state pays for it. And I qualify for food stamps because so much of my income goes to medical expenses that aren't covered by Medicare.

I also go to school tuition free. This is a state program, so if you are stable enough in the future, it's worth looking into. But, only SSDI people qualify.

SSDI takes SO much stress off me financially. I wouldn't have been able to afford any medical care without it.

The only thing that stinks is the judgement by others. I've had former friends turn against me and use my disability status against me. Maybe it would be easier if I lost my legs or something so people could actually see my disability. The fact that I'm not "mental" 24/7 works against me. I can look normal when I go out in public, so people think I'm using the system. What they don't know is how hard it is to get on SSDI to begin with, coupled with almost 20 years of medical records documenting my disorder. Sometimes I feel like I need to prove myself to the world. But then I realize it's none of their business. Word to the wise, only tell those who need to know about your status.

I've rambled on enough. Just remember that you worked for this. Don't watch the news; those in power who want to cut our benefits and consider us moochers will drive you nuts. (I was in full panic mode the days leading up to the presidential election due to republican threats to cut/eliminate social security and Medicare).

And don't consider SSDI your final destination. Heck, the government says I'm not going to get better, but I'm not going to stop trying to get back on my feet. I may never be able to work a 40 hour 9-5 sort of week, but there are so many options out there. Good luck!
 
Scaredoflonely, thank you for your post. It showed both good and bad aspects, that really helps me kind of see what I'm about to face. I'm sorry your former friends were judgemental, that's not cool. Just because they don't know what it is like doesn't mean they have the right to judge.

I am still waiting on them to call me back, hopefully next week.

Also my partner wanted me to tell you all thank you from her. She says everyone's insight and advice has been very helpful, she thanks you all for helping me to help myself and helping me to help her understand. I wish she liked forums so she could join as a supporter, still working on that but inevitably that is her choice. Which I respect.

Again thank you all from the both of us.
 
Awwwwwwww! Look at that fuzzy love, I love dogs. What kind of dog is she? I am assuming she is female from the name.

I wish my Pitbull could become a service dog for me. My girlfriend said to my dog "I don't think Mommy has ever loved anything as much as she loves you.", which is kind of true. I mean I love my first dog a lot, but him and I never had the connection I have with my girl. He has been my rock for almost 13 years now, so I do love him. She just calms me in ways he couldn't, I don't know why that is, but it is what it is. I still love my boy and always tell him "Don't worry buddy you'll always be my #1 no matter what.". Dogs are one of the best things to happen to humans I think.
 
I would have never guessed pomeranian, but now that you mention it her face structure is similar. That's cool that you got her DNA tested.

Rescue dogs are good dogs, and most I think understand pain unfortunately because of what some went through. My boy was bought from a breeder who was a family friend. My girl I got from a shady character from a gas station in the hood lol! I think if I didn't buy her that day, her life wouldn't be full of love. Most people in the area I bought her breed them in their first year (so wrong), and raise them to fight (so wrong again). I just hope her brother and sister found just as loving homes. When we got her she was heat stressed, dehydrated, her "outtie belly button" was actually a hernia that healed, and she wasn't weened right as she was 2 weeks or so. A big part of me thinks the puppies were stolen because of this. Especially since the guy lied, which I shouldn't be surprised. Either way I got great dog out of it, and she got a loving home. Win, win in my book.

Lol sorry for the long winded replies. I am long winded already as is, and dog are one of my true loves in life.
 
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