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Poll Taking Things Literally.

Do you take things literally on a regular basis?


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The Cali shooter was a member/supporter/whatever of the MRA. I need not say more about how whacky these idiots are.
Yes, and many of them do think the same way Elliot did. WOMEN are standing up for these dicks!

I don't have a problem with them wanting rights and their own issues addressed, and I do have empathy for mens issues, what I have educated myself about and have some understanding of. It's the blatant hating that goes on and the way they diss feminists for hating men, whilst doing the exact same thing but in reverse that bugs me.
 
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I don't understand why you see your response as taking what was said literally. You are reading things that aren't there. Where does it say anything about women who are feminists as opposed to women who aren't?

I was told by these people that I had taken what he said literally. I interpreted his words...which I've already laid out in my posts, as him saying that women and feminists are different. "Women are human beings, who are of the female sex, and feminists are Idealogues." Those were his words...so hopefully you can see where the distinction was being made here, and where it came across as sounding as though feminists are somehow seperate from being human?

To take this literally would be to not add anything of your own interpretation about "women who are feminists" because nothing was said about them. Certainly nothing was said to exclude them from being human and female.

There was no sentence saying "women who are feminists."

I think him saying 'Women are human beings of the female sex, and feminists are Idealogues who follow a certain ideaology" does exclude them from being human. Why even make a distinction like that in the first place? No one IS an ideaology, or an Idealogue.

Women and men who identify as feminists are also human. Most are women. I found the whole thing confusing, as I couldn't see why there was a need to use those words to distinguish women from feminists. Maybe that was excluding male feminists, but it seemed more aimed at the women who are feminists.

And nothing was said to exclude the possibility of human female also being an ideologue who follows an ideology.

Making a statement that feminists ARE idealogues IS removing them from being human and female, isn't it? They are not their ideaology...they are people who live by certain ideals and political convictions. It is but one aspect of their entire individual Selves...not their entire being.

I don't understand the point in distinguishing women from feminists in the first place? it seems like unnecessary seperation.

Looking up the definition of the word 'Idealogue' it does say they are people who follow a certain ideaology, so that is still acknowledging their humanity. I guess maybe I read the way he said that as meaning they were seperate from being human for some reason?

How is your interpretation literal?

Ask them.

Because I pointed out that the way he worded his statement sounded very much as though he was saying that feminists are Idealogues only and not women or even human by sheer fact of making a distinction between the two and defining what a woman is compared to a feminist (which is what he said) I took his words at face value and then was told I was dull for doing so. When I said that it was perhaps a poor choice of wording, I was told the wording was fine and it was all my interpretation.

And, just out of interest, are you assuming that all feminists are female? As in, all Marxists are Marx?

I know not all feminists are female, but most are. I found the way he worded the sentence quite de-humanizing. I can see what you are saying though.

Maybe I took it the wrong way, because I am not involved in gender based discussions that much, so am not familiar with the rhetoric or terms that are thrown around regularly? To me it seemed as though they were saying feminists were not women or human, which sounded offensive. He kept accusing me of hunting for signs of misogyny, which was not what I was doing at all, at least not consciously...it's just what I saw and it seemed de-humanizing.
 
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Ah!...the old progress is achievement and ever increasing growth thingy. You know what I've only just started to feel, that it's okay just to be. To be me, to be me not doing much that would be considered important! :bookworm:

The funny thing is I was never that way. I used to be very good at just being, and never felt like I had to keep up with issues around me to feel like I was smart. I started to feel so alienated from the rest of the world though...like I really had no idea at all what was going on, and although I think most people think they have to have an opinion about everything to be able to have "serious adult discussions" when they become an adult, otherwise they are just left there standing around not saying anything...which used to be me...I remember feeling so at peace and ok with just not having to be "smart" for everyone elses benefit.

I want to get back to that again.

You know some people flog their guts out at work all their lives so they can move to the country and only see the postman and the baker.

Yes, true. I am not like that though. I work in a relaxing profession and never wanted a mortgage.

I think you potentially have a better balance of things just around the corner. Relax, enjoy it! :cool: that's what it's there for. No capitalising on for the next improvement.:stop: God knows I've done that.:sorry:

Thanks, I appreciate the vote of confidence and optimism.
 
The Cali shooter was a member/supporter/whatever of the MRA. I need not say more about how whacky these idiots are.
Well, I don't think all mra supporters and activists are like he was. For sure there are lots who are...but it's like feminism. There are people calling themselves feminists who want to see all men be castrated!

There are feminists who are lobbying against the bill for baby boys having their foreskin removed to be abolished, because they don't consider it to be "genital mutilation".

There are idiots and f*cked up people on both sides...but not all people in these groups are like this. Most feminists are not man haters...and I can only assume that there are many many men who are in the mra, who do not hate women. They just want their rights...they have double standards, issues and hypocrisy, but they don't hate the other gender, they are frustrated with the inequality they perceive around them.
 
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Here is a video made by someone in the MRM. I know that it isn't on topic for taking things literally, but I think he can dispel that their movement is full of women haters. I believe him.

 
If you honestly believe that white men are losing their "rights" then I don't think there is much more to say. Bottom line, it ALL leads back to white men no longer being on the top of the social status. Honestly, I still rather support gay people, women, minority races, etc instead of a bunch of cry babies who can't share.[DOUBLEPOST=1402014257,1402014170][/DOUBLEPOST]And I can't help but feel that this is personal. You've been screwed over by the feminist movement so why not go on over to the other side? Seems logical to me!
 
And I can't help but feel that this is personal. You've been screwed over by the feminist movement so why not go on over to the other side? Seems logical to me!
Why do you assume I've gone over to any side?

Investigating things from both sides of the story doesn't mean I've become an mra anti feminist...and I stated clearly that both sides have their idiots, so what part of that wasn't clear to you?

And who said the mra is made up of all white guys? As far as I know it's a group for all colours, minorities as well as more privileged. I've known men who were being bashed by their wives and girlfriends, and I know good guys who are having their rights to see their kids taken away due to manipulative ex wives and the courts, so yeah, they do deserve to have rights...as we all do.

I do think lots of men in America get screwed in the courts when it comes to divorce cases, and they do have issues with homelessness and suicidality, as well as circumcision which is a horrible practise, as is female genital mutilation. It's called having empathy for them. I'm sorry you think that's a bad thing.

I haven't "been screwed over by the feminists movement" though I have met some really unempathic feminists who use brow beating tactics to force people to agree with them and become their allies, and generally act like they are a cult, which I want nothing to do with. Your snarkiness here isn't appreciated.
 
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I answered yes but after reading the whole thread I think I should have said sometimes. Philippa if you look at my profile I just updated my status with my favorite saying, "Don't argue with fools. You are not the jackass whisperer." This guy is a jackass as are all MRA men. No matter what you say they will argue with you because you are female and they feel superior to you. If you want a good laugh look up "bye felipe" on instagram. It's basically women that encounter MRA men in dating situations and their takedowns of them. Hilarious.
 
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