Diagnosing people with self evidence, self diagnosing, and all the other nonsense, is a dangerous game IMO which only gives more credence to support how invalid mental health is right now, because there are people out there reading books, blogs and all other sorts of nonsense, walking away believing they can look at people and diagnose them with something, based on their life experience or knowledge, and short-term, limited observations.
This.
@Dana1010, I'm actually curious as to why your own realization that your abuser was a psycho- or socio-path was a breakthrough for you. I often wonder whether knowing the "why" behind the abuse is necessary or relevant to treatment. I know my therapist would like it if I accepted that my abusers were "sick" in some way, but to me that just seems like rationalizing or excusing their behavior. It sounds like to you, though, knowing this has given you some measure of relief. I wonder if it's because you knew yours and mine were strangers? That would make a kind of sense. And nothing I'm about to write has anything to do with undermining something that has been a breakthrough in your treatment.
This is a great article: [DLMURL]http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/attachments/112693/psychopathy-versus-sociopathy.pdf[/DLMURL]
(It's long, it's scholarly, it's worth it.)
From the opening paragraph:
While quibbling over terminology can be a tedious endeavor, it has become necessary to treat the terms psychopath and sociopath differently. When used in every day conversation the importance in the distinction is not noticeable - the words simply describe a remorseless killer and seem to denote that something could be wrong with the offender's brain. However, in brain science, the difference between these two terms has become crucial for numerous reasons. First, the history of studying psychopathy has now arrived at a point where the word psychopath means something very specific. Second, there appears to be a hesitance among scholars to use them interchangeably, preferring to use sociopathy if a brain injury or a belief system resulted in antisocial behavior (there should be no hesitance in the use of terminology). And lastly, in light of the first two reasons, the neurology underlying the psychopath and the sociopath can only be different, a crucial fact to be realized when seeking to understand the etiology, behavioral characteristics, and potential treatments for each.
To me, there is absolutely no difference between casually throwing around the term "PTSD" in society to describe someone who is generically upset about something (i.e. "I got PTSD from my math class") and throwing around "psychopath" to describe someone who kills someone else without feeling bad about it.
Because that is what you are saying. Now, it's likely that I spent a weekend with some psychopaths or sociopaths, I don't know what was accepted terminology in the 80s - and I know the cold, flat "look in the eye" that is being referred to. And yeah, it's terrifying. But I also saw looks of anger, looks of glee, looks of something resembling fear? or annoyance? when I was coming out of what were maybe seizures, maybe something else, not sure.
But do I know what was wrong with them? No. Am I making excuses for them? No. Do I give a rats ass what their psychological make-up was? Honestly, no. I know I was damaged, I know I have PTSD, I know they haunt me.
So, back to the original question: For me, there is no value to understanding the neuropathology of my abusers. My treatment remains the same.
But that's just me.
If we call every evil person a psychopath (I'm using evil in the cruel, calculated, remorseless sense) - well, then what? The little girl who led her friend out to the woods and stabbed her because she thought an invisible creature wanted her to - well, is she a psychopath?
If we diagnose purely by action, purely by
outward show, then we move backwards, deny science, and close back in on the days when you were a witch if you had sex, you were a heretic if you disagreed with the dominant religion, and you were a demon if you had Down's Syndrome.
I posted a thread awhile back with an article about diagnosing and treating psycho/socio-pathy in children. It's harrowing and interesting.
Early-intervention For Sociopaths?
So look, use small-p psychopath if you want, it does have an accepted meaning outside the science of mental health. But if we are really debating mental health, I believe we have a responsibility to stick to the science - not criminology, not sociology - but neuro- and psycho- logical
science.
Otherwise, we only undermine our own diagnoses, indirectly. We can all spout Criterion A like it's tattooed on our arms (most of us, anyway) - because we are strongly in defense of the clinical definition of our disorder. It's hypocrisy to not apply the same to
all psychological diagnoses - in my own very strongly held (but happy to defend and debate) opinion.