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Death Untimely And Unexpected Loss Of My Emotional Support Dog

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SeanCharles

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Yesterday evening, (Saturday, December 6, 2014) I found my emotional support Dog, Sheba dead. I got her at a very emotional period of time in my life. I had been admitted to our psychiatric in-patient unit at our local hospital following an episode that shall never be repeated. I wound up going 60 miles (that was planned) which wound up double or triple that distance to go to our local Hot Spring Resort. The next day I came back into town and crashed outside on the steps of my counselor's office building since I had a scheduled appointment that morning. Because of my condition he felt that I needed to be admitted because of the dissociated episode that occurred.

After some further counseling, we came to an agreement that a therapeutic dog would benefit me. After doing battle with the apartment complex owners, they finally approved my request for a dog. I had begun visiting the local shelter. Ironically I began visiting the shelter in search for a dog which would meet the criteria that the apartment would allow. The first visit I laid eyes on Sheba. She had just been returned to the shelter a second time. (This would be her second time being back at the pound.) And neither she nor I for that matter were ready for each other. The following week after a session I was approved for a dog. So, that Friday, I went to the shelter and adopted Sheba. I went to the pet store and got a crate, food bowls and a collar and leash for her. At this point she came into my life. At the time, I wasn't working and was on SSI. I began walking her and such daily since she couldn't play on the complex property. The more I had her with me in the apartment, I began to realize that she was not an apartment suitable dog.

Thus, began another project... Finding US a home, a real home. Given she was barely a yr old, I had realized just how little obedience training she had given she had been returned to the shelter for a second time. I began to work on a few basic skills and was amazed and surprised at how smart and quickly she learned what I was teaching her. Leash training was something we struggled with some since I didn't have a proper yard for her yet.

I had hatched a plan to begin transitioning into a home ownership program I had known about and was able to finally qualify for because of established rental history with the apartment. At the same time, the apartment owners, a brother/sister decided they wanted to put the apartment complex on the market!

However, this decision would lead Sheba and I to experience a separation. Why? because these two people were anti dog. While it was great that I was able to live with what would become an emotional support animal for my benefit, Her (Sheba) not being an apartment suitable dog, was problematic. Our separation occurred at a good timing because I had found US a house! It was located not far from the complex which made the move easy. As for Sheba, I refused to give her back to the pound knowing that I needed a dog in my life. I amazingly received a call from the shelter about someone who provided fostering for them when the need arose! I contacted that person and made arrangements for Sheba to temporarily go into foster care while I made the transition of our new home possible. From there the story continues...


I eventually brought her home to OUR house at a time when she had with a cohort escaped and caused some trouble.

Since then, Sheba lived a very happy and was well cared for. She served me well the few years we've been together!

Rest in Peace!

---SeanGeo
 

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Thank you so much for sharing your story.

Awhile ago my mom got me a paw print magnet for my car that said "who rescued who?" which couldn't have been more perfect. We "rescue" our support dogs and give them a good life, but they "rescue" us by providing much needed emotional support.

My heart goes out to you in your time of loss.
 
She served me well the few years we've been together!
Yes she did. I am so sorry that your time has been cut short with your beautiful friend, and so unexpectedly. For sure, you will see her again. I am so so sorry.

My mum and I lost our beautiful dog in May and we are still grieving. For the time she was with us, she served us well and was the blessing we so very needed through so many difficult times. People have not understood nor recognized the loss of her nor what she meant to us.

Unconditional is a dog's love. Truly.

Just know that you will see her again. My heart goes out to you SeanGeo.

What we did for a while was create a memorial where she slept with things she loved: flowers, pictures and whatnot. It did help.

Take Care Of Yourself. Again, I am so so sorry for your unexpected loss. Remember, we will see them again. My prayers are with you, Rising Sun.
 
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Man, I am so sorry bro' !!!

It really sucks that Sheba passed and my heart goes out to you!!!! I hope that after some time to grieve, that you will find another friend and companion.

It's not good to be alone. I have a 2 yr old cat named Millie and although I can't play fetch with her or all the wonderful things dogs do, I am very much attached to her.

I hope your heart soon heals, from what I can imagine must be a devastating loss for you!!!

As always and especially now, I wish you peace and comfort,
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I know that I will be getting another dog. The next dog will be a certified Service dog! How this will come together will take time since I need work through a modified version of the 5 stages since I didn't experience or feel any denial. I think guilt is going to be a starting point. I do feel guilt, I haven't felt ready to explore this fully but I suspect that some of the guilt is unrealistic. I will be definitely be using this thread as well as my own member's diary to post and work on myself some more.
 
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