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The backstory on this is that while I was a Marine, I was a Navy-brat for the 17 years prior.
Anyhow... So I'm driving down to Oregon yesterday, and as occasionally happens, I find myself giving the 1 finger salute to the VA Hospital sign through my sunroof as I'm on the freeway. The hilarious part? No less than 3 other cars also have drivers or passengers flipping off the VA Hospital sign.
I wish wish wish I had a photo of that moment.
It was all just a very casual thing. In fact, the moment I caught the eye of the driver next to me we both started cracking up and nodded. Yep. f*cking VA.
I'm tempted to go instal a camera on the sign (or camp out for a bit) just to find out how often this sort of thing actually happens. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad we have the VA academically. "As a society" is says a good thing about us. But the military has pure socialized medicine. Our country doesn't. The VA, meanwhile, is like some sort of unholy birth defected monstrosity of a love child between the two systems. All the downsides of each, none of the benefits of either. The VA has the potential to do a lot of good. And sometimes, despite itself it does. But the amazing person, great program, life saving & life changing event are the exception to the rule. Not the norm.
I've been actively avoiding the VA since I was 14.
Younger, if you count parents making sure illness and injury happened "on base" and not off base. My dad is the most straight arrow, justice, by the book man you will ever meet. And even he told his sailors to make sure their kids were hurt or got sick on base.