How exciting! ? A favorite ongoing learning experience of mine. Switching to a whole food plant-based vegan lifestyle has benefited my overall health in ways I never dreamed were possible, although it made me painfully aware of heart wrenching facts I didn't realize I even needed to be paying attention to along the way. I learned we don't just digest products, but also processes. But regardless, I'm so glad I was catapulted into practicing it via emergent medical needs, or I likely would have continued to totally misjudge it from afar.
I found a flax milk in my 'hood that I really enjoy. It's "Good Karma" brand. I don't drink coffee or add it to any of my herbal teas, but do use it on Quinoa Queen brand cereal, in smoothies, and in most other recipes that call for milk. I like the Omega 3 benefits of the flax.
For the tofu scene, I prefer the extra firm and found a marinade that has been my absolute favorite:
Baked Italian Herb Tofu Recipe + How To Press Tofu Like a Champ
I usually use white or regular balsamic vinegar instead of the red wine vinegar (because I keep forgetting to get more) and replace the oil with water. I always use liquid aminos in place of soy sauce, or miso tamari. I like it best if I plan ahead and marinate it overnight, but a few hours is still good, too.
When I buy store bought tofu, I use a clean thick kitchen dish towel to wrap it in and stack a couple big books on top, then flip it and do the same on the other side for at least an hour, combined, to press it and get as much liquid out as I can, unless I'm using it for a scramble, then I just drain and crumble it.
I don't like to eat a whole lot of soy stuff, so I learned how to make a tofu replacement, so to speak (as in non-fermented), called Burmese style chickpea tofu. It's made from chickpea (garbonzo bean) flour and water. Super easy to do (just don't walk away while it's boiling - lol) and inexpensive:
Chickpea Tofu recipe - make your own soy free tofu with this easy recipe
I leave out the oil and the salt and use 1/2 to a whole cup less water to make it super firm. You could also add seasonings and spices if you want to later skip the marinade, or do both.
My favorite way to fix tofu is to marinade it - lemon/dill and lime/garlic/cilantro are also good combos - so many options to add flavor. It always reminds me when I'm making it that my mind is just like tofu, it's gonna taste like whatever I marinade it in. :) - then roast/bake it on a baking sheet with parchment paper at 400F for 20 minutes on each side, rather than using oil or frying it.
If I want it on a sandwich (found some great vegan gluten-free sandwich thins/loaf bread/bagels/buns in our stores - the O'Doughs brand) then I slice it accordingly, but more often than not, I cube it to add to salads, pasta dishes, buddha bowls, or to just grab and snack on.
My favorite taco "meat" is made with walnuts (can also be used in spaghetti sauce, casseroles, etc.):
Walnut Taco Meat Recipe - Food.com
I enjoy the smoked paprika, especially, and use the liquid aminos rather than regular soy sauce, and sometimes add a little cayenne to kick it up a notch.
I was reminded during this learning process that I never really ate meats without various seasonings, so I wasn't missing the meat itself as much as I was missing the flavor combos of the seasonings I added to them. A very helpful light bulb moment! I used to be pretty grossed out by sensory issues and textures of dead flesh, anyway, so I'm relieved I no longer have to mess with that.
I also like to use the tofu or the chickpea flour to make scrambles as an egg replacement. I discovered Kala Namak salt (a very little dab will do ya' - so start small and add little bits more if necessary) - also called black salt, but isn't actually black - that gives it the egg-like flavor.
I use canned and rinsed chickpeas, or cook a batch from the dried beans, to make replacements for old favorites like chicken salad (made as usual minus the chicken and with vegan mayo)/seafood salad (use chopped up nori sheets and dulse flakes (or kelp) for the seafood-like flavor - add some Old Bay seasoning - along with vegan mayo and whatever else strikes your fancy)/egg salad (with Kala Namak salt, mustard, vegan mayo, celery, and whatever else you like in it) and I often use romaine lettuce "boats", purple cabbage "boats", collard green wraps, etc. rather than bread. It's also yummy stuffed into those little sweet peppers, or into a cucumber boat with the seeds scooped out.
I had to work
really hard at learning how to flip my inner script from thinking I was going to be missing out and, instead, got excited and eager about how much more healthy nourishment I could be receiving (even more eagerness once I started feeling better and becoming more functional) from things that are truly a treat to cell-ph, especially compared to what I had been socially programmed to mis-treat mycell-ph with (other than the taste buds, of course) and refer to as a treat. I learned I was a hardcore food addict by design. But I also learned just because something is vegan, it surely doesn't mean it's healthy(ier). There's a shit ton of vegan junk, too.
Now I'm hungry. lol Have fun experimenting!