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Sexual Assault What Can I Do? I See My Rapist Daily

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Hi. same time on a daily bases i see one of the sick shit that raped me and what make it so f*cked up is the judge told me as this guy hate me it would be a good idea to be nice to him or he may do it agene and let him go on a good behaviour bond as he has mental problems . I would like same help how can i move on when i see him ?? how would you do it if you see the assholes all the time. I don’t say a lot but this time i need help
 
I am sad and angry for you. What happened was not ok at all. I really hope this guy doesn't live in my neighbourhood! No doubt he will offend again..
Is avoiding him a possibility?
 
To avoid him i have to move and my job and life is this town :(
 
Make an appeal to higher court. I found it useful to always have a pen in my pocket, it's small and it can work wonders for self-defense. Hold it between your index and middle finger, the button should be pressed into your palm (in the traditional way of holding a pen, your finger might slip and you lose the pointy end). You use it like a knife and you don't hesitate, because otherwise you will do nothing, you should aim for the soft zones, e.g. the eyes, the side of the neck, the ears, under the ribs, the legs. Then you take it with you and run. For me, learning self-defense was a crucial point in this period of my life. Also, you can prepare a recording app on the desktop of your phone, you can turn it on in your pocket and use it as an evidence later on if he tries to approach and threat you. I know it's scary and the bare thought of getting caught will make you sweat and your heart will try to fly out of your chest. If you tell yourself not to think that in the worst case scenario you are lost completely, but instead be always prepare for it, maybe you will find the strength in yourself, if not now, maybe later on. I had a problem with a stalker for a long period of time and eventually find myself moving into another country for studies. I know how scary it is and the moment you see him you enter in a panic state and you are not longer you, I was letting my stalker bully me for a long time only because my mind was just freezing and I was not able to move or react. Take care. If he has mental problem, they should put him into a hospital. If you can, don't give up your rights, make an appeal.
P.S. If things get worse, you might consider contacting the media, when in they are in the public eye, the judges will treat you a lot differently. Since it's a case connected with sexual harassment, the media is obligated by the law to keep your identity confidential (studying journalism).
 
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Thank you both for the help . I went back to the police as in my job i work whit them all the time . As he not out looking for me we just happen to be at the same place a lot there not a lot they can do . The one thing working whit the police they will drive past my house thay what to get him as i'm not his 1st but they will not go to the police. he make me sick when i see him he know say hi ask how my day is and the smack at me the way he did when he raped me and i feel like have to talk back to him not to get him mad or it my fault if it happens again I'm at the point i do not what to be here . I have a key thay will take skin off so i alway have that on me and hope i will not have to use it
 
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