Was thinking I suppose it's important just to be kind; not assume; focus on the positives. And maybe not worry about other's feelings or well being so much if they do not include me in their circle, as then I am just an unwelcome presence. I suppose the latter to a certain degree I was taught to do at the expense of all else, including myself. And, well, my lack of options are my problem. I read today something about healing cannot happen in isolation, thought well that's that then lol. But that's just thinking of the negative, frankly I don't care about focusing on that. 
ETA Actually though, I guess what's better is not to care less for others feelings, it's good to (also) assume I don't understand (a lot), but to care for my own equally.
ETA Actually though, I guess what's better is not to care less for others feelings, it's good to (also) assume I don't understand (a lot), but to care for my own equally.
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