Relationship What's The Longest Amount Of Time With No Contact?

[Glara]

Supporters, just wondering what the longest length of time was that there was no contact at all. This is the longest it's been for me, last time I heard from him was May 31. He texted more after he first broke it off.

 

[Sweetpea76]

A week with no contact at all. Almost 2 weeks once with "I'm alive" texts.

 

[Deleted member 27524]

Two weeks was the longest for me before I heard from him.

 

[Glara]

This weekend is 3 weeks which is baffling because in the last text he wanted to see me and said he dreamt about me. Maybe that has something to do with it? I was very happy but very guarded. I didn't plan to go, I just decided to wait to see what he would say next and what he said was nothing.

 

[Glara]

It's been exactly 3 weeks and text just said "not dead..." I didn't even answer yet. It came at 10:38 last night, I was in the movie theatre, didn't see it until after midnight.

 

[Sweetpea76]

"Not dead" isn't bad for radio silence... it's not good either, but not bad.

 

[Deleted member 27524]

Glad you heard from him Glara!

 

[Glara]

Yes, I'm happy to hear from him for selfish reasons (he still wants me in his life), and serious reasons (he didn't kill himself). But I'm still not feeling good. I'm still afraid for him and his state of mind. Is he still in a depression, how close is he to being suicidal? Things like that. And then I think is he just done with me and keeping me around for some "unknown to me" reason.... And then I think I know how messed up he is and I know what a bad place he's in.

 

[Lilmssunshine]

We both went no contact for six months. Both our mental illnesses were going haywire. We were trying to move on too. Didn't work. I still love the man. Sigh