FauxLiz
Sponsor
I have been working with my T for not quite a year and the weather this summer has been warmer and more humid than normal. As a result his office has been borderline uncomfortable temperature wise during many sessions. As someone that works in a professional environment my session is a place I go directly from work. The last few sessions though I have struggled to not be uncomfortable by the casualness with which he has taken to dressing. I would say he most likely falls in the middle of the millennial generation I feel awkward and overdressed for our sessions when he is in cargo shorts, a casual button front shirt and loafers without socks. I know what he is wearing shouldn't matter but I feel as though in a way the casualness with which he dresses is a reflection of his casualness in how he sees our sessions, a disrespect for the courage, strength, effort and difficulty I have talking about the subjects that we discuss in session.
I get it I am over reacting, being childish to judge and mind read his opinion of me based upon how he dresses for our sessions. But it bothers me, I will never bring it up but that is just how I feel.
I get it I am over reacting, being childish to judge and mind read his opinion of me based upon how he dresses for our sessions. But it bothers me, I will never bring it up but that is just how I feel.