Between the Bars
Learning
I spent 7 months with the therapist I got in contact with Marlene Steinberg who created the DSM criteria on did to no avail. She doesn't trust anyone but me life has been a living hell this last year I haven't posted in a long time and I'm just at the end of my rope again I don't really care how everyone advises me to just move on or other b*******.
My wife has been a member of this group for 10 years I've seen every single post many of them were not true but I loved her and she showed many of them to me she was trying to heal. I now have an attorney, I'm best friends with CPS, and I got to know a judge. Everyone is placating her trying to get her into therapy she is now convinced that I'm gay and had homosexual relationships with a fictional person she had an affair with. Neither one of us ever met the guy, it's been total Fidelity for 26 years and I now have custody of our daughter because she put a protective order into the courts after pulling a gun on me. Thankfully I'm in a really good person and it wasn't hard to get witness testimony from both our mothers and our daughter.
I miss her terribly I know she's mixed up and doesn't really know who I am but I'm so angry at her. She created a Facebook account after using mine for the last 10 years and friended every ex boyfriend or anyone who's ever been mean to me like she's trying to get back at me for being gay which I'm not. There was no fight beforehand, she's my best friend and we really love each other and then she showed up my work and had been reading some for him and was convinced that fictional people were other people and that that was the evidence she needed that I was gay. She called my other friends in another state I just moved from there and had them condense that we had a gay relationship I've been with my wife forever and I'm a healthy person I would agree in psychology to help her I'm completely devoted to her and I see her illness and I try and be her friend and help her and suddenly I've been Shanghai for my life.
I've warned the two shirts and two pairs of pants I've had since I got taken by her from work on April 12th the courts gave me custody of her daughter and said that she has three weeks to get a mental health assessment she's not doing it that she's not going to cuz she's scared I've had to schedule every single appointment she's ever had and if I try and contact her I will go to jail for the next 3 years, this is the most ridiculous situation I've ever been in and my attorneys tell me they've never had a case like this where she says I pulled a gun on her and I'm dangerous and then a week later we do a modifications to the hearing and she says our daughter would be safest in my care cuz I'm the most safe person out of all the family members.
It's ridiculous but I'm not allowed in our house and I can't explain myself to her. I'm not gay and unfortunately I'm very attracted to my wife and we're the best of friends most of the time. It's almost like there's something about April, she did this a year ago and it nearly killed me she also did this back in 1997 and we got married right after that and things have been really good for 24 years and then suddenly it's not.
I don't really understand and I'm going out of my head. I lost my new job that she was happy about. I have custody of my daughter but I can't talk to her and I'm the only person she's ever trusted and I keep her grounded but she pulled a gun on me until the course that I pulled a gun on her so I'm stuck.
I know everyone's going to say I told you this a year ago I know that but what the hell am I supposed to do, I really love her and she really loves me but she's not available right now so the courts have decided that she can do an mental health assessment and if she doesn't do it my attorney is going to force her to do it but in the meantime I'm worried she's going to destroy 26 years and those 26 years were easy because we both really like each other where attached at the hip and suddenly it's gone. I'm just really pissed off I don't know what else to say to say.
My wife has been a member of this group for 10 years I've seen every single post many of them were not true but I loved her and she showed many of them to me she was trying to heal. I now have an attorney, I'm best friends with CPS, and I got to know a judge. Everyone is placating her trying to get her into therapy she is now convinced that I'm gay and had homosexual relationships with a fictional person she had an affair with. Neither one of us ever met the guy, it's been total Fidelity for 26 years and I now have custody of our daughter because she put a protective order into the courts after pulling a gun on me. Thankfully I'm in a really good person and it wasn't hard to get witness testimony from both our mothers and our daughter.
I miss her terribly I know she's mixed up and doesn't really know who I am but I'm so angry at her. She created a Facebook account after using mine for the last 10 years and friended every ex boyfriend or anyone who's ever been mean to me like she's trying to get back at me for being gay which I'm not. There was no fight beforehand, she's my best friend and we really love each other and then she showed up my work and had been reading some for him and was convinced that fictional people were other people and that that was the evidence she needed that I was gay. She called my other friends in another state I just moved from there and had them condense that we had a gay relationship I've been with my wife forever and I'm a healthy person I would agree in psychology to help her I'm completely devoted to her and I see her illness and I try and be her friend and help her and suddenly I've been Shanghai for my life.
I've warned the two shirts and two pairs of pants I've had since I got taken by her from work on April 12th the courts gave me custody of her daughter and said that she has three weeks to get a mental health assessment she's not doing it that she's not going to cuz she's scared I've had to schedule every single appointment she's ever had and if I try and contact her I will go to jail for the next 3 years, this is the most ridiculous situation I've ever been in and my attorneys tell me they've never had a case like this where she says I pulled a gun on her and I'm dangerous and then a week later we do a modifications to the hearing and she says our daughter would be safest in my care cuz I'm the most safe person out of all the family members.
It's ridiculous but I'm not allowed in our house and I can't explain myself to her. I'm not gay and unfortunately I'm very attracted to my wife and we're the best of friends most of the time. It's almost like there's something about April, she did this a year ago and it nearly killed me she also did this back in 1997 and we got married right after that and things have been really good for 24 years and then suddenly it's not.
I don't really understand and I'm going out of my head. I lost my new job that she was happy about. I have custody of my daughter but I can't talk to her and I'm the only person she's ever trusted and I keep her grounded but she pulled a gun on me until the course that I pulled a gun on her so I'm stuck.
I know everyone's going to say I told you this a year ago I know that but what the hell am I supposed to do, I really love her and she really loves me but she's not available right now so the courts have decided that she can do an mental health assessment and if she doesn't do it my attorney is going to force her to do it but in the meantime I'm worried she's going to destroy 26 years and those 26 years were easy because we both really like each other where attached at the hip and suddenly it's gone. I'm just really pissed off I don't know what else to say to say.