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[Tinyflame]

Thank you p-no, but no thanks necessary, :notworthy:.

It's just the truth, you are very special. :) :hug:

 

[Springer80]

I think Krtek should be your mascot.....or even possibly your avatar!!! ;) No pressure!! :roflmao: Well, on this thread at least. Have you seen the cute merchandise? I'd send you a virtual present if I could. I wish we had a little P-no-metre were we could all click up your best wishes bar!!!

PS. Stick to the decaff! Too much caffeine is bad.

 

[p-no]

an understanding of how I should expect to be treated and the right I have to say no without worrying about feeling guilty about it

Ya, I need that too. Learning more about the shades of grey of assertiveness.

stopped a lot of 'head noise'

Sure does make sense to me!

Best wishes also to you, Saffy! :hug:

 

[p-no]

Thank you p-no, but no thanks necessary

May not be necessary but I wanted to! :inlove:

You are very sweet, Junebug, thank you.

 

[p-no]

I think Krtek should be your mascot.....or even possibly your avatar!!!

Oh yes! I'd like that! But I have felt more like an old lady than a 3-year old lately. ;)

cute merchandise

Seen it? :laugh: You should see how much of it I have right here with me! :happy: The key chains with the little wooden Krtek... I got three and made earrings from them and a necklace (they are like 2.5 cm big, lol).

The other day I "spammed" my god child with a Krtek dvd, a stuffed Krtek and a greeting card. Didn't work. ;) He did love the most important gift though, I had already thought so: a little transparent plastic "envelop" with two pictures with him and his mom (he is so so proud when he says "this is my mommy") on them. He can turn it and will always see the two together.

I wish we had a little P-no-metre were we could all click up your best wishes bar!!!

Awwww, that is so sweet, Springer! :inlove: P-no-metre... :laugh::laugh: Bottles of pinot by the metre will do too!

 

[Tinyflame]

Same here p-no, :) :inlove::hug:.

Whatever way things go, any guy would be lucky to be in a relationship with you.

I like what you said about 'not defining' things. Even generally speaking. PTSD is so unpredicatable- not 'definable' sometimes (so to speak), how can we explain what we ourselves sometimes don't understand? It's nice to be able to go with the flow. Because sometimes the flow is a tsunami, sometimes a peaceful stream.

((((((Hugs))))).

 

[Tinyflame]

P-no, double posted- the photo- I have that for myself, too. It helps, I flip it over and you're right it feels better.

((((((More Hugs)))))).

 

[p-no]

any guy would be lucky to be in a relationship with you

Oh gee... I am not so sure... :confused: But thank you, dear Junebug. Sorry, I have trouble with things like that being said.

My t said not long ago: "I have the feeling you do not know what a wonderful woman you are." Sheesh... No clue what she means by that, seriously. It sure is different when you're actually inside of me all the time...[DOUBLEPOST=1350825914][/DOUBLEPOST]Again, sorry, I am having a bad day...

 

[p-no]

Oh, darn it! I'm in love. WTF!

I messed up the last two times this happened! Seriously, I did. Not making anything bigger or worse than it was. What am I supposed to do? :cry:

 

[Springer80]

Oh, darn it! I'm in love. WTF!

I messed up the last two times this happened! Seriously, I did. Not making anything bigger or worse than it was. What am I supposed to do? :cry:

Wish I could feel confident giving you advice but if I'm honest I'm terrible at this stuff. I've been struggling with the last relationship I ruined a year ago!

Don't worry about having to hide or cover or explain or justify. This is always what lands me in trouble.

I'm shy and cautious and reluctant and nervy and clumsy when it comes to this stuff and I'm going to have to find someone who likes it. It sounds like you have. Enjoy it, you deserve somebody nice.

 

[p-no]

Thank you, Springer. :hug:

I come across as self-confident and being able to deal with whatever comes my way. People think I'm strong and turn to me because I "remain calm in through every crisis and I know you'll tell me the truth". But... when I let a guy into my heart (no matter if he actually wants to be or not), I get shy, cautious, reluctant, nervy, clumsy, hardly get any sleep, do silly break-dance like movements when there should be waltz-like steps and turns... :confused: :bag:

Thank you for caring, Springer. I'm sorry you're having the same problem. It sucks when you mess up although you want the relationship. :( (((HUGS)))

 

[Tinyflame]

P-no, trust is hard to learn and takes time. Besides which, if the whole world waltzed, it'd be pretty dull indeed! I saw a funny sayng yesterday on MSN that said "love and the flu have the same symptoms"! :eek::p

Seriously though, give him a chance to work on those "7 seals". Love has a way of adapting. He doesn't need you to be a calm-cool-and-collected Air Traffic Controller (good as that is in certain circumstances :) , that's not necessary for love ). It's you he cares about and is interested in and is attracted to. Get to know each other, have fun together, share in steps if it's more comfortable. Springer is right, you should be loved for who and how you are. Other relationships have to fail for the right one to have an opportunity to succeed. Trust your T's words and your friend's response and interest. I am sure they are right.:) :hug: