Abstain From Alcohol? Opinions?

[PTSDisweird]

I just do not want to drink anymore. Not even socially. I do not like how it makes me feel.

Same here. Hate the feelings and the sensations the alcohol creates. Be good friend :)

 

[EveHarrington]

I like having fun without alcohol. I like staying in control because I stay safe-ER that way. Sober living is more honest anyway. Can't really trust what people say/do when inebriated, even just a bit.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

You too:hug:

 

[PTSDisweird]

I like having fun without alcohol. I like staying in control because I stay safe-ER that way. Sob...

This. Feels good to be in full control of your body and be able to have good time without substances. Gives you something like a confidence boost (?) and a mindful and genuine night out.

 

[joeylittle]

I drank initially as a social thing, and never very much (but I enjoyed it). Then, I drank to self-medicate, but it took me awhile to figure it out. Then, I started medication and stopped drinking pretty much cold-turkey. Eventually, when I was sure I could drink and keep it in moderation, I started occasionally drinking again - but the horrible interaction with my medication was just awful, awful, awful. I've decided that I'd rather not drink, and not have that terrible drug hangover next day.

 

[PTSDisweird]

I drank initially as a social thing, and never very much (but I enjoyed it). Then, I drank to self-...

Sounds painful. If you feel like you are better without alcohol, then go away from it without second thought. Someone else has stated it above with other words i think :)

 

[Lotis]

I am super hyper-vigilant and never want anything to alter my ability to react or alter my memory in any way - I have enough of that on my own! I have a fear of not being in control. I do not like to drink or take any illegal drugs. Now that is not to say I haven't in the past - growing up it was a way to escape but never a safe option. I had some bad experiences under the influence as far as flashbacks and suicidal behavior. Personally I choose not to drink or do drugs. It just makes me feel worse in the end.
~L

 

[PTSDisweird]

I am super hyper-vigilant and never want anything to alter my ability to react or alter my memory in any...

Well said Lotis. Thanks for the answer. :)

 

[VioletButterfly]

My opinion - if you are questioning drinking, it might be your intuition telling you to not imbibe and it also might be telling you that you need to find some support or a way to cope with what's bothering you. Just a couple of thoughts from an alcoholic. Addiction is never the answer. VB

 

[PTSDisweird]

My opinion - if you are questioning drinking, it might be your intuition telling you to not imb...

Thanks Violet. I don't really find relief in alcohol. Maybe it's because the side effects of it annoy me more compared to the numbing it gives. It's like my body doesn't let me to become addicted to it. And that's one of the reasons I want to quit it even in social situations. I like the feeling when I am fully sober when I am out anyway. Wish you good luck with your addiction. Stay strong :)