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How did you use mindfulness today?

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Square breathing, extra stretching, especially hip flexors and shoulders, made a new recipe that turned out well, used the timer while doing laundry so it actually got done the same day I started it, walked to the mountain stream to talk to my favorite trees, scheduled tomorrow morning to better include more helpful-to-me stuff at the start of the day instead of putting it off until whenever, then not having it happen. I've been slacking in my actions, big time, other than in the kitchen.
 
When I was washing my hair. I really scrubbed deeply with my finger pads into my scalp. Feeling my strength and feeling the scalp too. And the suds. It was nice.
 
My therapist has a mindfulness card game! She said we can play it next week if I would like. I can't wait. If I like it, I will order one for myself. I looked on Amazon, but them have pages of them and I don't know which one she uses. I just saw the backs of the cards for a second and I can't remember well enough what they look like to identify them on a computer page.
 
Wow that is interesting!!! I would like to learn about this mindfulness card game. Please keep us posted, if you would.

*(and by the way, I absolutely love the purple morning glories, ...is my favorite flower; I like the heavenly blues and the crimson ramblers as well)!!!
 
Thanks. I just love flowers. I bought a Begonia this week. I have had a Gerbera Daisy all winter, and plan to plant it outdoors soon. And I also bought some herbs this week, Basil, Italian Parsily and Oregano. I got a planter for the window sill for them.

I have emailed my T and asked about the cards. I will let you know. I am sure they are something that all of us could benefit from! We might even be able to play the game here, if we could all buy a set!
 
One of my Therapists gave me a gift once that is, I think, called a Zen Garden. It has beach sand in it and some shells. Also a little wooden rake. My current T has one in her office. Hers has sand and rocks in it. Anyway, it is fun to make patterns in the sand with the objects and the rake. It is calming and keeps one's mind in the present. I also do this during sessions sometimes, to ground.
 
I often wake up very overwhelmed. Today was going to be a very busy day.

One little thing at a time. Drank water and took my meds (which I had been struggling with but some friends here helped with that). I decided to actually cook breakfast (which I skip always).

Heated the pan. I focused on cracking open the eggs, chopping the ginger, onion, tomato into little pieces... Sprinkled some salt. The sound and smell of the veggies and the eggs cooking really helped me relax. After making enough for me and dh, and seeing him happy I made food, made me able to start off the day better.
 
I'm just reminded always of what I was and how I acted and what this situation would have been like with the old me. It's painful to think about. I'm still a little bit that way but probably 75% less. I don't think that's an exaggeration? If you were here, I'd let you ask my partner, she's a better judge of me than I am lol. I think my way out of stuff. I can think now a little. I avoid unhappy feelings and conflicts and things that are just going to make me feel bad. It is much easier for me to see that stuff now? All that stuff was self-harm for me so I use mindfulness to avoid self-harm which is so easy and opportunities present themselves so readily and so often. Today so far has been sweet and I could spend hours telling you how everything is wrong. That's what I used to do. Don't tell anyone I said this. : )
 
I've made a few of those zen gardens out of used items I found at thrift shops and around the house, @SpiritSong . They are fun to work with and create. Where I used to work, we had a giant one made from wood that was wheelchair accessible with playground sand added to it.

My favorite that I made was for a friend's daughter who had lost her mom to suicide. I found a gorgeous old antique glass ceiling light cover that did not have any holes in it, grabbed a few bags of craft sand at the dollar tree store, and had found a small mason jar full of those little things folks can attach to the crocs brand shoes to decorate them...like letters, flowers, animals, helliday themes, jewels, etc. (like little buttons, almost), and made the rake thingy for it out of a cool looking antique fork, also found at the thrift shop, by bending it at the ends to appear more rake-like. I picked out the different things that reminded me of her mom and when I gifted it to her, sat with her and explained each thing and why I felt it was special. Thanks for prompting that pleasant trip down memory lane. :)

Today, I remembered that I can only change my cell-ph, not others, remembered to breathe on purpose, to go outside and breathe the somewhat fresh air, to stretch my body so it can move a little less painfully, to hydrate healthily before eating dehydrating cooked foods, to chew my liquids and drink my foods, to make my own stuff to ensure I know exactly what I'm getting and the side effects that will follow, and made a few more phone calls to some places to hopefully plant and nurture some more seeds regarding the lack of healthier options they currently make available/affordable to consumers trying to be more mindful of what they consume.
 
I drank some water mindfully, feeling it go down the "tube" into my tummy. I felt the coolness of it. My tummy is cooler now than it was. I played with my Zen garden. I crocheted, listening to the sounds of the yarn and the needle, enjoying the color of the yarn. Also the feel of the stitches in my fingers.
 
Been craving ice cream a lot more now that the weather's staying warm, but the non-dairy versions are hella expensive, and still contain things I'd rather avoid...so I peeled and froze a bunch of "over ripe" bananas to make it easier to whip up a big bowl of dairy-free nice cream whenever the cravings hit. I mindfully foresee that I'll likely be craving some for break-fast tomorrow. lol
 
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