Wow, I never ever thought I'd be in this situation and be writing this now.
Rather than go into my history, there are those of you who know me and I'll leave it at that.
I did something I should not have done but in hindsight it was the best thing I did, I opened up my bf's cell phone bill this afternoon. Because I just really needed to see if there was anything unappropriate in there and sure enough there was a phone number that kept appearing over and over again, he'd call this number 4 to 5 times a day and often late at night. Sometimes the late night calls would last for 2 hours. I called this number and it is a girl that he used to work with, no longer does. While I knew they had maintained a friendship I can also put two and two together here. In the beginning when things were great with us he'd tell me how she'd say things like, you're hot and can I touch your arms. Back then I told him that I didn't like the sound of that but he told me even I wasn't in the picture, he wouldn't be with a girl like that, wasn't attracted to her anyway.
I call him, he's out of town "working" (how appropriate its Valentine's Day) and he finally called me back, I told him what if I told you that I have proof you are having an affair and of course he denied it, and got frustrated and told me he couldn't discuss this now because he was at work.
It gets worse, there are so many parking tickets that have come to the house and because we've switched up the cars, he drives my car, I drive his the tickets are in my name. I open the envelope and all these tickets are from a residential area, when I brought this up to him demanding to know the truth he fessed up and said that was where he was going to his AA meetings. These parking tickets have kept on arriving, has to be about 30+ of them. I did a 411 search on her name to see where this girl lives and BINGO the same address where he's been getting tons of parking tickets.
I drove by the apartment and his car wasn't there but I have all the proof I need. I sent him a text from there saying "Isn't it a coincidence that your AA meetings are at E###'s apartment? I had no idea she was your sponsor....you disgust me"
Still haven't heard back from him and its been more than 2 hours. I left him a VM, his cell was off and in essence said it all makes sense, I really was your trigger because I represent everything that you are not, decent, loyal and loving.
Rather than go into my history, there are those of you who know me and I'll leave it at that.
I did something I should not have done but in hindsight it was the best thing I did, I opened up my bf's cell phone bill this afternoon. Because I just really needed to see if there was anything unappropriate in there and sure enough there was a phone number that kept appearing over and over again, he'd call this number 4 to 5 times a day and often late at night. Sometimes the late night calls would last for 2 hours. I called this number and it is a girl that he used to work with, no longer does. While I knew they had maintained a friendship I can also put two and two together here. In the beginning when things were great with us he'd tell me how she'd say things like, you're hot and can I touch your arms. Back then I told him that I didn't like the sound of that but he told me even I wasn't in the picture, he wouldn't be with a girl like that, wasn't attracted to her anyway.
I call him, he's out of town "working" (how appropriate its Valentine's Day) and he finally called me back, I told him what if I told you that I have proof you are having an affair and of course he denied it, and got frustrated and told me he couldn't discuss this now because he was at work.
It gets worse, there are so many parking tickets that have come to the house and because we've switched up the cars, he drives my car, I drive his the tickets are in my name. I open the envelope and all these tickets are from a residential area, when I brought this up to him demanding to know the truth he fessed up and said that was where he was going to his AA meetings. These parking tickets have kept on arriving, has to be about 30+ of them. I did a 411 search on her name to see where this girl lives and BINGO the same address where he's been getting tons of parking tickets.
I drove by the apartment and his car wasn't there but I have all the proof I need. I sent him a text from there saying "Isn't it a coincidence that your AA meetings are at E###'s apartment? I had no idea she was your sponsor....you disgust me"
Still haven't heard back from him and its been more than 2 hours. I left him a VM, his cell was off and in essence said it all makes sense, I really was your trigger because I represent everything that you are not, decent, loyal and loving.
