Im glad that you have found a therapist. I opened up to my t about self harming as i knew i needed help and i wanted help. She told me she was glad that i had and that she wouldnt need to report it if i remained honest and open with her and i looked after myself ie kept the wounds clean, didnt cut near any major arteries etc and that i also told my partner too. We worked on numerous strategies to help me and i always was honest with her when she asked me about it. I felt then able to tell my own doc and my partner - i wasnt thrown in a hospital , i felt totally supported and the harming stopped for a long fime. T more recently did a pysch doc referral for me and she advised me she had to tell the pysch doc about the harming .. i was totally okay with that and it helped me as the pysch doc had the full picture. Who does your t need to report you too?