GrayOwl
MyPTSD Pro
Enabling and complicity w/bad behavior don't seem to have any positive place in recoveries or relationships.
You seem to be asking for advice with both.
She needs to be willing to seek help. And you should not enable bad behavior or actions.
There are certainly many many positive routes. It seems that she has the GPS programmed.
And you're not getting any input in where the relationship goes.
I agree with everyone else. Wholeheartedly.
Keep searching and working on you. Hopefully she will find some tools and work on herself.
Unfortunately, many humans learn through pain and loss - not by listening. You can't force her to change anything.
Plant the seeds. Hopefully she can nurture them into recovery. And maybe a relationship.
If not.....reread the last two sentences from nursenurse right above.
My wishes for good direction and serenity to you as well.
You seem to be asking for advice with both.
She needs to be willing to seek help. And you should not enable bad behavior or actions.
There are certainly many many positive routes. It seems that she has the GPS programmed.
And you're not getting any input in where the relationship goes.
I agree with everyone else. Wholeheartedly.
Keep searching and working on you. Hopefully she will find some tools and work on herself.
Unfortunately, many humans learn through pain and loss - not by listening. You can't force her to change anything.
Plant the seeds. Hopefully she can nurture them into recovery. And maybe a relationship.
If not.....reread the last two sentences from nursenurse right above.
My wishes for good direction and serenity to you as well.