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[Punky143]

Technically on paper it says I have a supervisor but in reality, no I don't. He. Yes, he leaves me out of everything. Doesn't communicate and doesn't want to hear anything I have to say. He dismisses me, always has to be right and never answers the question. So, no I can't talk with him about it, I'd only piss myself off. He is a definite trigger. I simply push out paper which is unfortunate because I want to do better. I can't leave and find work elsewhere because I hold the insurance etc and not marketable. I spend most of the time at work with my headphones on and it's very lonely.

 

[Lionheart]

Sorry to hear, that must be very frustrating for you.

 

[Deleted member 37474]

My therapist analyzed the personality of one of my awful coworkers for me. It greatly helped to know that it was his issue and not mine. Amazingly, everything she said in dealing with him was true.

 

[New]

Technically on paper it says I have a supervisor but in reality, no I don't. He. Yes, he leaves me out...

Just wanted to let you know I understand. You are worthy and you deserve better.

 

[LadyZane]

This sounds so much like my boss (the owner of the company!!). I know how frustrating it is to be stuck working for a giant trigger who also happens to be a giant jacka**. It's so much work not to get upset on a regular basis. I've been looking for another job since July and the market is just dead.

 

[Punky143]

I'm tortured at this point, inside and out. I feel so alone, trapped between different worlds. If I made it to work, I listen to the mean parts tell us all day long how unimportant we are, robotic/invincible mode because it doesn't matter at all how gets the work done, as long as it gets done. I used to work with the most intelligent, successful person who never saw me as below and listened and valued my opinions. We had the perfect dynamic and I miss her so much. No longer am I needed for anything but pushing paper. I feel so worthless and replaceable. It's too bad too because if I know someone believes in me and listens and values my thoughts, I will be the most dedicated hard working employee. But to literally pass by me and pretend I'm not even there but say hi to those behind me is so hurtful. Getting emails about a coworker throwing me under the bus and I have no chance to explain. That to me means shut up, I'm not interested and it won't matter. Because it won't. I leave work only to drive home feeling good about anything I did because as long as the numbers add up, no contact is demanded. Its like reliving the past over and over

 

[New]

I'm tortured at this point, inside and out. I feel so alone, trapped between different worlds. If I ma...

Wow! I was going through the exact same thing at my old office. I know it is mentally draining you on top of everything else.

I wish I had some great advice for you but I don’t. Just wanted you to know I understand and hear ya!

 

[bento]

Sounds like mobbing type behavior. Really sucks. I'm sorry you're having to go through that.
Just remember that it's them and not you. And what a sad petty type of person they have
to be to behave like that.