I see my T twice a week. So few weeks ago, I booked two appts very close to T time and booked them off. My T canceled the last session before taking those two days off on the same day.
No biggie. Never thought about it.
Then came the week after when we supposed to meet. No show or more like a call. I am thinking at this point for sure something came up or maybe she is sick since she cancelled last time and I did not see two times over then.
but then I wonder, she may send me email to say sorry no show or some other courtesy. None came. So Saturday, I felt maybe it is very serious and sent her email (I hardly ever do this or never) and said I hope you are well and see you next scheduled session.
She responded and said some thing about conference (The conference advertisement came quickly , so I had to cancel quickly .) and see you on Thursday. None why no show/call or even courtesy email.
I did not respond cause there was no reason but I am struck in a weird way. Maybe my trauma side is gearing my thoughts but I really felt like this is sort of instigator to get me react (working already but may probably smooth over sooner than later). Also my next session should be today - Tuesday but she did not mention it and said Thursday. So I am under the impression she really meant Thursday but being so weird I feel like more is going on.
Hello paranoia like feeling. How you been?
Just wondering any sense from other humans. Has a T never just no show and no mention or is this a first?
edit - just wanna mention I also see clients and forgot sometime but gosh I do follow up with oops email not let them hang and dry...this is my practice.
Thank you
No biggie. Never thought about it.
Then came the week after when we supposed to meet. No show or more like a call. I am thinking at this point for sure something came up or maybe she is sick since she cancelled last time and I did not see two times over then.
but then I wonder, she may send me email to say sorry no show or some other courtesy. None came. So Saturday, I felt maybe it is very serious and sent her email (I hardly ever do this or never) and said I hope you are well and see you next scheduled session.
She responded and said some thing about conference (The conference advertisement came quickly , so I had to cancel quickly .) and see you on Thursday. None why no show/call or even courtesy email.
I did not respond cause there was no reason but I am struck in a weird way. Maybe my trauma side is gearing my thoughts but I really felt like this is sort of instigator to get me react (working already but may probably smooth over sooner than later). Also my next session should be today - Tuesday but she did not mention it and said Thursday. So I am under the impression she really meant Thursday but being so weird I feel like more is going on.
Hello paranoia like feeling. How you been?
Just wondering any sense from other humans. Has a T never just no show and no mention or is this a first?
edit - just wanna mention I also see clients and forgot sometime but gosh I do follow up with oops email not let them hang and dry...this is my practice.
Thank you