I do remember, I felt the same way-back-when, maybe I always have? And I posted and a Sargent said ~people will tell you to get lost, no worry of that. I fear he was wrong, though he was right re: family. I wonder if he is ~ok/ still living, he had terrible injuries. But he was kind too, and I remember him saying ~even Sargents need hugs. Cute man. Wow, would have to go back 10 years to find that one. Not today though.