@flowerapple I can relate. A 39 year old woman here, and I don’t want children due to many reasons. Was born in a South asian country (Depending on community) where there are strong beliefs about social conformity. It’s hard to be an advocate for your own self when other people have different values and Opinions. I’ve been asked many times, why I don’t want to have kids? My answer is: Lack of empathy due to early attachment disorder. Guess that says a lot.And, holidays especially suck because everyone is together and all they ever seem to talk about is family, and life, and the future, and getting married and starting a family.