Trust someone else to be my secondary financial Power of Attorney after the person I had chosen apparently stole $80 cash from me. I think they planned to return it secretly (I think they stole it when I was in the hospital, and then planned to return it secretly in the middle of the night, but I discovered it before they had a chance to do so).
Better to get someone I can trust to respect my financial situation 100% rather than someone who might turn out to be untrustworthy! This person is my secondary financial POA, but still, I need to be able to trust them with access to my cash, checks and home. I need to be able to trust them 100%, which certainly I could not do with this original person!!!