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I originally wrote a fictional account of what happened to me. Then someone suggested I write it as a memoir. That was a mistake for me as I love reading and writing thrillers. I've written quite a few thriller novels, a total of nearly 1 million words since 2011 when I first remembered about my serial killer father, though I've never wanted to publish any of them. Plus I've written thousands upon thousands of journals. I started keeping journals in 1976. My bookshelves are loaded with my hardback ones and then I've got my journal writing software. It's taken me a long time—dealing with my abuse and life in between writing and revising—I'm finally at the editing stage of my novel. It's been through several transformations along the way to become a thriller with completely different characters than me and my father and the story premise is different too.

You don't need a degree in writing. You don't need to take classes in writing or grammar. Get a book on grammar. Read, read, and read some more in the genre you plan to write.

And then write! I have a piece of paper taped to my wall next to my computer. It says:
How To Write A Novel

WRITE
IT

Edit it later, add or delete or research after the first draft is completed.
That's all it takes to write a novel or memoir. Sit down in front of your blank screen on your computer and starting writing whatever comes or write long hand as I do sometimes.

By the way, if you're writing an autobiography, it's a detailed account of your life from birth onward. If you're writing a memoir, it's more of a snap shot of a particular time in your life and how that affected you and your life.

I used to belong to a few memoir writing groups while I wrote my book as a memoir. These books were cathartic releases and purging experiences for each of the writers. I like reading memoirs. I just don't like writing them. It's not my thing.

When I began writing my current novel in 2003, that's not a typo, I had zero writing skills. That never stopped me from going for it. I just finished a non-publishable novel (not something I'd send to an editor/publisher or self-publish) this year and posted it on a site online. It ended up being close to 175,000 words. Yikes! If I ever decided to publish that story I'd trim about 75,000 words from it.

What helped me learn to write back in 2003 was an online challenge called NaNoWriMo or National Novel Writing Month. Someone on another website told me about it. The goal is to write 50,000 words in 30 days. I actually found it relatively easy and completed the goal in less than three weeks. The challenge runs every November. They finish a spring version of it April 30.
 
Thank you everyone for the input. I have a great grammar book, I have used it for about 20 years since I was finishing my undergraduate degree. The question that really stands is do I have the courage to put everything out in the public purview. From the outside looking in most people would have considered me to have had a very blessed life. There weren't any obvious signs of neglect and emotional abuse when others were around my parents and siblings acted loving, caring and nice when there weren't others around it was brutal I was routinely told that I wasn't related to my siblings, made fun of for not looking anything like any relative for several generations back. As for physical abuse my mother's mantra to my siblings was to take it outside, no blood in the house otherwise they had carte blanche to do what ever they wanted to me. My older brother molested me I don't know how many times until I was 6 because my parents thought there was nothing wrong with housing a boy and girl with a 5 year age difference until I was 6 and then there was so much more that doesn't involve my family that I have never told them.
 
A friend of mine wrote his story. Its called "Warrior Rising" by Chris Linford. I haven't been able to bring myself to read it yet. I don't think he cared whether or not it sold well. We just wanted a chance to help others.
 
I am in the process of writing my "story." It is brutally difficult to do (and I am a writer, but not a writer of my personal stuff). I'm motivated to write because I have read nearly everything I can find out there on issues related to those which this forum deals with. A long while back, I was given advice, "Write the book you want to read." So I suppose that is partly what is motivating me. I have read a few decent books about "our" issues, but not much is out there. So I guess I'm motivated by writing my own story as both a way to sort out my own story, but also as a way to help others sort out theirs.
 
I have thought many times that i would like to show what happens behind closed doors, but not just the trauma of the events but how you live with it afterwards, the simple things that become a struggle. I think it would be interesting to write something that shows the ups and downs of life as a consequence of other peoples actions.

I really feel that the term PTSD is not known well enough for trauma that is not combat related. I have considered before writing something showing that PTSD is not limited and it can affect anyone given enough reason.

Sadly it would break down too many important relationships for me (my family) if I ever did so, so I most likely never will.
 
I really feel that the term PTSD is not known well enough for trauma that is not combat related.

I really think that is changing. In western countries if you compare the PTSD rates of vets and citizens they are almost the same. And there are a lot more citizens than vets.
 
I really think that is changing. In western countries if you compare the PTSD rates of vets and citizen...
I agree it is definitely better known, but I have seen 5+ therapists and it was only the last one that mentioned PTSD seriously. Even then they seemed reluctant. Just the other day my acupuncturist told me he was surprised I had PTSD so young, all the people he knew who had it were in the army.

It is getting better but a lot of people do not know or understand. I don't know if a book would help in anyway, but it would be good if it could.
 
. I was just wondering if any other member had considered writing their story?

Yep! It would make a good book or movie as it sounds fictional. Too bad it wasn't. But yep, thought about it. I, however, am dyslexic and not a writer. Even if I took writing classes, I can't see myself putting together a book. Maybe journals put together as a book? But yeah, not a writer!
 
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