Moving stress

[Dynamic]

Looking for support big time. I'm managing jus okay. Moving due to harassing neighbors. Doctor concerned i will have a heart attack. I'm under 30yrs old. It's a very high stress environment.

We found a house to put an offer one and the anticipation is physically painful.

I don't want to flip out on anyone. The realtor for example works really well for us. But I want to tell whats taking so long! I feel like I'll be letting my therapist down if I call her again .

I can't seem to think straight.
Any support appreciated

 

[Friday]

Worst case scenario? Lease an RV for a few months.

It’s the off-season, and even on-season companies were putting 1-2 week gaps between leases, or sealing & fuming them… so that nixes the contagion factors of hotels.

Alternatively? A month to month apartment.

Both options let you pack out your house in preparation of moving, and live elsewhere whilst house-hunting. Instead of all your hopes & energies focused on a single now-now-now-NOW-now-now? You have options. Buys you a little space and peace of mind.

 

[Dynamic]

Thanks @Friday.

My neck is solid as a brick right now tense.

Didn't think of those ideas.

I have no idea what I'm supposed to do to take care of myself right now.

 

[arfie]

I like to focus on physical symptoms when I am dealing with anticipation anxiety. There's not allot I can do to rush the process, if I am even willing to take the risks involved with rushing a move. Easing the pain of that brick solid neck sounds like a mighty fine place to start. Perhaps some gentle stretches?

Breathing with you, Lovee. Anticipation anxiety sucks, both literally and figuratively.

 

[JGirl]

We found a house to put an offer one and the anticipation is physically painful.

I just want to say good luck.This is such a stressful time! I hope you hear back soon.

 

[Dynamic]

I just want to say good luck.This is such a stressful time! I hope you hear back soon.

Hi JGirl thank you very much. Our offer was accepted and we are awaiting the inspection reports I addressed the need of control/ to feel safe. And am doing much better.

I like to focus on physical symptoms when I am dealing with anticipation anxiety. There's not allot I can do to rush the process, if I am even willing to take the risks involved with rushing a move. Easing the pain of that brick solid neck sounds like a mighty fine place to start. Perhaps some gentle stretches?

Breathing with you, Lovee. Anticipation anxiety sucks, both literally and figuratively.

Yes I slept with the heating pad for a couple nights. Stretches did help too! Thank you for the support!! I posted an update

 

[JGirl]

Hi JGirl thank you very much. Our offer was accepted and we are awaiting the inspection reports I addressed the need of control/ to feel safe. And am doing much better.

Congratulations! I am so happy for you. I just sold a house that I need to be away from( I was renting it out) and am waiting for the buyer to have financing approved. Cheers to moving forward!

 

[Dynamic]

Congratulations! I am so happy for you. I just sold a house that I need to be away from( I was renting it out) and am waiting for the buyer to have financing approved. Cheers to moving forward!

Cheers!! Congrats! I hope it all goes smoothly for you!!

 

[Muttly]

Congratulations. Moving is super stressful. Continue reaching out here and to your therapist. Take care of yourself and take things in small steps.

 

[user27357]

I hate the day of the move more than any other part, but it sounds like you are glad to go and eager to arrive. havent done it in years but did regularly for many years before that, the move day usually had me stressed at daybreak and panic mode by dark. get boxes, load them, be ready, rent a truck or borrow a pickup but no open trailers or crammed cars, don't ask. I got better and better at prepping and the day of got tolerable but never fun. probably Waaay better today with cell phones. happy for you

 

[Dynamic]

Thanks everyone. I'm reaching out. cause the move is happening right now and it is mostly going okay. But I had court with the harassing neighbors 2 days ago. They lawyered up, and the lawyer was like a pitbull to try and get the charges dropped. Summary of the court hearing was them arguing a lot. And the the judge basically said absolutely no way he can drop this, with the level of hatred involved towards us. So now the case is going to trial!

My T is looking into and is willing to provide a statement for me so that's a big plus.

I'm the victim in the court proceedings. The charges are the state I am in vs. The harassers. I think it's gonna work out. But I'm soooooooooo mad. Hypervigilant. I have these dark hair patches. I'm sick of it. My period hasn't fully restored and it may never. I guess I'm just expressing I have serious health issues as maybe most of us deal with. All related to stress and trauma.

On I'm just venting. Please feel free to chat with me about anything. Thank you.