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Am I Right In Being Furious?

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Chincho

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As I was reading Anthony's thread about stupid PTSD diagnoses, I realized that I went through the opposite situation a couple of weeks ago.

I had my gallbladder removed and, due to complications from the surgery, I developed biliary peritonitis three days later.

I was taken to the hospital and put in the ICU as soon as I arrived. It was 9 am.

The doctors didn't know what was wrong with me at first, until my son told them what medication I was on. As soon as the ICU doctor heard I was on psychiatric meds, he decided my ailment was psychosomatic ( a physical illness caused or aggravated by a mental factor such as internal conflict or stress).

As I was getting worse, at 2 pm the surgeon contacted my therapist who told him that what they thought was stupid (that's what she actually said!), and she ran to the hospital to talk to them.

At 4 pm, I was already on morphine and the pain wasn't going away. I knew I was dying and I told them so, but they kept telling me to wait.

A doctor came to my bed to ask me if I knew what panic attacks and anxiety were. He was lucky I couldn't move from the pain! I would have killed him gladly, and let him know. Then he asked what my diagnosis was. When I told him PTSD, he asked what the main trauma had been. Then he asked if that was a definitive diagnosis.

I was finally taken to the OR at 7 pm. Ten hours after my arrival at ICU. There were four surgeons waiting for me and they all looked pretty scared. My therapist had called my psychiatrist who had contacted the main surgeon. Also they had realised I was really dying by then.

Of course, when they opened me they found the truth. And they even took pictures of it because it was such a rare complication!

When I went to get my stitches out a week later, I asked one of the surgeons: "If I hadn't been taking psychiatric medication, would it have taken so long for you to operate?". His answer: "No". That's it. He even smiled when he said no!

Four surgeons, one ICU doctor and a few nurses who thought it was more confortable (?) to think my messed up head was making everything up because I have PTSD.

Going back to Anthony's thread, I can't believe some people seem to want to have PTSD!
 
I'm so glad you made it through the ordeal!

I never tell anyone about my medications except for my GP. If I go to the ER, nope, I'm not on any meds!

I've had my own hospital BS.....a bit different, but like you, because I am "mental", I wasn't taken seriously and went unconscious for a few days, landing in the critical care unit. They initially denied that I had a problem and it wasn't until I was found unconscious in my bed that I was taken seriously! I was told I was pretty close to dying. Scary stuff.

Later upon complaint, we were told that my case wasn't unusual, that I was one of the lucky ones who made it through as many others in my situation end up dying.
 
In the medical profession, this is how falling prey to stigma and stereotyping can kill a person.

What kind of arrogant idiot would not rule out an organic cause first!? If you haven't noticed, I'm furious. My first instinct is to say seek legal counsel, mental health stigma should never endanger a life. So wrong. Wow....just, wow.

My primary care doc does this a lot to me, I end up feeling like my health concerns are viewed as mental health issues first and I'll get brushed off instead of investigated.
 
My primary care doc does this a lot to me, I end up feeling like my health concerns are viewed as mental health issues first and I'll get brushed off instead of investigated.

I hope you can find a better primary care doc then! Is that possible? You deserve good health care, and at some point you might be too sick to fight bigoted idiots about reality, and get worse or die because of their attitude.
 
Docs are in short supply here and sadly, if it wasn't for her referral, I never would have found a good therapist (back in the day). Now it becomes a battle of wits and when I'm depressed she usually wins. I won't let anyone kill me....that's for me to do. (Bad suicide joke, sorry). :)
 
Yes I think it is disgusting how as soon as they know you have a mental health issue it is dismissed, my own doctor did the same to me last week, I have been experiencing bowel issues every since ripping a massive hernia in a fall several years ago, and even though I am now also bleeding with bouts of upset stomach he is suggesting that my anxiety is causing these issues, and is not referring me.

I won't ever be again telling a doctor about my diagnoses but it is hard when they know from referring you for therapy sessions. It is really none of their business.

I would consider taking action against them, but I don't know that it will get you anywhere.
 
Someone here told me that I might be angry at a group of people as they are safer to be angry with than the true group.

I only mention this as it was helpful to me. By all means be angry at the group that "want" ptsd - it is certainly justifiable, but they might not be the true source of your anger. For me realizing the true source was calming.

I hope this thread reads as intended (I'm currently in a bad place) I wish you only the best.
 
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