hi survivor. that is a good goal. Hope you have some good meals in your fridge :) . I am not looking for properties. Due to covid there are no properties available near where I live. Or any I would be willing to move to. It is complicated. I did not back down with my concerns in my relationship but have agreed to give things 6 months. I think my spouse also struggles with mental health and he has agreed to work on these issues. Time will tell how things turn out. I see where there are 3 ways this may go. 1. I leave 2. he works on his mental struggles (I stay and things are better) 3. He doesn't work on his struggles (I stay and i'm miserable)