I sometimes make to do lists, but more often my husband will make them for me (dont worry-I asked him to!)-partly because of my poor memory and partly because I very often lack the motivation or imagination to do them myself. He writes things he feels Im ready to accomplish out and leaves them for me to find in the morning, and it helps SO MUCH. I make it my goal to cross them off once completed. There's no pressure from him for me to do it, but for me personally that works more than if I'd written the list myself