Renestel
Silver Member
Hi everyone,
I haven't posted in a while here, been in serious therapy last two years and starting to trim down now which has been going really well. But in the last 4 months, I have three nearby rental neighbors that are triggering me to the point of feeling like I might be backtracking a bit now in my decent progress.
I have one neighbor who's dog would literally try to kill my dogs if the fence fell down, there is a small hole in the fence where it makes sure to scream and yell, gets absolutely violent to where even I flinch. I have tried her doorbell, no answer, left her a note finally that if she wouldn't take care of it I would be forced to call animal services. She confronted my husband while I was at work saying I "threatened her" and that's not okay. What?? plus, That dog hasn't been outside the backyard in 5 years. But that's probably not considered negligence sadly.
Other neighbors are dealing drugs in all hours of the night, my husband recently installed house cameras and the stuff Im seeing in front of our house is straight crazy. I've called the non emergency cops, they got busted, and the mom took the wrap for everything, even though there were 9 pipes outside and bags. yeah, one person can do that.... whatever.
Newest neighbor parks in front of our side of the street even though they have their part of the street to park in, throws trash in our yard, drips oil everywhere, and their friends even decided it would be fun to open their van door and have sex with the door open facing our house. we were out to dinner, checked our cameras because so much is going on, and came home and they just bounced like , meh, no big deal. This is ALL SO TRIGGERING to me. I was doing sooo well. and now when someone encroaches on my space, disrespects my property at any level, I am like in sniper mode right now. I never was in the service, but I did have to fight for my life several times. i am completely back there in adrenaline again. Does anyone have any personally experienced advice? I am falling apart where I was doing so good. It's definitely a personal bubble and safety thing, but anything deeper or things to try would be amazing. Thanks everyone. :smug:
I haven't posted in a while here, been in serious therapy last two years and starting to trim down now which has been going really well. But in the last 4 months, I have three nearby rental neighbors that are triggering me to the point of feeling like I might be backtracking a bit now in my decent progress.
I have one neighbor who's dog would literally try to kill my dogs if the fence fell down, there is a small hole in the fence where it makes sure to scream and yell, gets absolutely violent to where even I flinch. I have tried her doorbell, no answer, left her a note finally that if she wouldn't take care of it I would be forced to call animal services. She confronted my husband while I was at work saying I "threatened her" and that's not okay. What?? plus, That dog hasn't been outside the backyard in 5 years. But that's probably not considered negligence sadly.
Other neighbors are dealing drugs in all hours of the night, my husband recently installed house cameras and the stuff Im seeing in front of our house is straight crazy. I've called the non emergency cops, they got busted, and the mom took the wrap for everything, even though there were 9 pipes outside and bags. yeah, one person can do that.... whatever.
Newest neighbor parks in front of our side of the street even though they have their part of the street to park in, throws trash in our yard, drips oil everywhere, and their friends even decided it would be fun to open their van door and have sex with the door open facing our house. we were out to dinner, checked our cameras because so much is going on, and came home and they just bounced like , meh, no big deal. This is ALL SO TRIGGERING to me. I was doing sooo well. and now when someone encroaches on my space, disrespects my property at any level, I am like in sniper mode right now. I never was in the service, but I did have to fight for my life several times. i am completely back there in adrenaline again. Does anyone have any personally experienced advice? I am falling apart where I was doing so good. It's definitely a personal bubble and safety thing, but anything deeper or things to try would be amazing. Thanks everyone. :smug:
