I Realize That I

[Anrish]

I realize that I have the right so say "Not now, gimme a break. I'll be back in 30 minutes"...and no one got offended.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

I realize that I need theraphy to get better.

 

[Heather]

@Saelben - You and me both

Realize I am so angry I can't see straight.

 

[Lionheart]

I realize that my life is moving in a new direction and it makes me uncomfortable. Maybe I will do better if I try to go with the flow of changes rather than fighting them.

 

[VioletButterfly]

I realize that life isn't "fair," whatever that means. I think it's one of those words like "normal." However, I'm trying to accept that all things happen for a reason, and am working on accepting my circumstances and set-backs instead of closing my eyes and shaking my head in disbelief and dismay. As @Lionheart777 noted, "going with the flow... instead of fighting..." I'm also of a mind to start gently looking for the gifts in the tragedies again as best as I can.

 

[Gadgie]

I've just realised that I'm on my own again, but I think that if I don't think about it too much and dwell on it, that I can cope.

Mind you, with this on going medical scare I'm going through, that seems to be taking up all my thoughts just now, so I wonder if that's a good or bad thing?

 

[Forgetful]

I realize that I apologize ALOT and H must be.so sick of hearing it.

.....I spend so much time going on about what I feel and need and very little time about what he feels and needs. And that's not fair to him

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Realizing having feelings and emotions sucks.

 

[Heather]

Realizing I do have the strength to fight for my daughter.

 

[ms spock]

I realise that I can change my thinking style by 5% by refuting my distorted cognitions. I realise that I need to write out the top ten distorted cognitions each and every day.

I realise that I can write down what my fears are about the funeral and I can stop that. It is time to get on top of that.

I realise that I also need to take more responsibility for my own life as well. I need not to fawn so much and be so dependant on other people.

I realise that I really need to step up to the plate ASAP. I realise that I am on my own. And I realise that I have to do it for myself. I realise that I need to write this out and read it to myself every day.

 

[Deleted member 20978]

I realize that I spend too much time sometimes thinking about what I'm thinking. I realize that I will someday be laughing and smiling and enjoying life. I realize that I talk too much. I realize that I am wounded and need to heal. I realize that I cannot admit to all I do wrong. I realize that I can keep changing. I realize that I have been through far worse than this.

 

[Lionheart]

I realize that I make all of my decisions without having all-seeing knowledge of how things will turn out. Most of my decisions are based on incomplete information. I cannot foresee the future, although I can make experienced estimates about things I am not a perfect person and I need to allow for things that may end up being better than I imagined.