I Realize That I

[Slushie]

I am brave for standing up for my and other women's rights.

 

[ms spock]

I realise that I have substantially improved in almost every arena of my life. I realise I need to use my creativity and my intelligence to move on and live my life.

 

[Tinyflame]

I realize there's no room for judgement or anything but giving support. Support +/or love.

 

[ms spock]

I realise that all the work that I am doing is paying off. I am really improving.

 

[MrMoonlight]

I realize I am the key to my own health and wellbeing.

 

[ms spock]

I realise that I am changing my focus to what I am doing rather than having a focus on what I am not doing. There is a lot that I am doing.

I realise that I am close now to stepping up a level in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. I am close to Esteem Needs, which is the level below Self Actualisation. So I have improved from the first to levels, Physiological needs, Safety needs and then Belonging & Intimacy needs, I realise that I was stuck in the first level & second level for a few decades, now I have moved out of that arena. I realise that I still am challenged by Belonging and & Intimacy needs but I am much better.

 

[Abstract]

I realise its possible I am often not as assertive as a think I am. That I don't trust myself enough to allow it be appropriate. And in other ways way more assertive than most people I come across. Contradiction.

 

[Teasel]

I realise I like myself.

 

[blackemerald1]

I'm not a super human? lol

 

[The Albatross]

I realize that I still will trip over every single time into full bore/full on balls to the wall even though my mental/emotional health really needs more balance. I trend not to put the breaks on but to hit the accelerator pedal and speed through it as hard and fast as I can. Not the best for mental emotional needs, nor physical ones to be sure.

 

[blackemerald1]

I realise that I can laugh.... lol :hilarious: :unsure: ??

 

[Tinyflame]

I realize that trying to be kind to all others, or not hurt any others' feelings- which that thought or priority comes as naturally or learned or personality or ingrained as breathing to me, and isn't even a required conscious thought but I 'do'- has left all of them with hurt feelings, and that has left me feeling so hurt and anxious and horrified and ashamed that that isn't something I can live with/ bear. :( Though in truth, it wasn't even my actions that were the original cause, but someone else's that should feel shameful and likely doesn't at all. I have absorbed all their shame, or have shame as a consequence.