I realize that, it is actually possible that (technically, according to what researchers say about it), that if I have a particular co-morbidity (Idk) , I would be 20-30% younger emotionally than my chronological age. The biggest part being, no matter how well (overly) informed of facts I was, or intelligent (or not) I was, or independent I was, or afraid to ask for help or reveal things or have a voice I was, at 14 when stuff occurred I might have had the emotional resources of a 9 1/2 to 11 year old. :wideeyed: And never mind, alone at 5 or 6 for example, would have been more like 4-ish. I suppose that would explain terror. :wideeyed:
I realize that without the above, thinking about the Miracle question, I see a lot of my reactions and behaviours are different versions of the same thing, fueled by the same, fear, avoidance etc. (Different flavours but all ice cream, so to speak.) There's no need to deal with each one independently, but rather address the bigger issue(s).
I realize that without the above, thinking about the Miracle question, I see a lot of my reactions and behaviours are different versions of the same thing, fueled by the same, fear, avoidance etc. (Different flavours but all ice cream, so to speak.) There's no need to deal with each one independently, but rather address the bigger issue(s).
