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Rose White
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so many people are abusers
it's everywhere.
See, I’m going to challenge this. It might seem like abuse is everywhere and most humans suck, but that *might* be confirmation bias mixed with media bias?most humans suck
For example, there is that idea of the “27 club” and most of us can think of a number of rock stars who died tragically from overdoses. But if you were to take a list of all the rock stars that ever existed, the percentage who died from overdoses would likely be much smaller than you imagine.
I saw the statistics debate going on in the other thread, and I don’t think we need to go there in this one.
It’s interesting to me that multiple peoples’ reasons for not looking into someone’s character is that “most people suck”. And then saying Gandhi and Mother T (hey you forgot MLK jr,) are somehow proof.
Maybe that gets into the psychological aspect of celebrity itself. It’s possible that for people to become celebrities they carry some personality quirk that lets them step all over other people—otherwise how would they get there (not counting viral celebrities, that’s a different kind). But I’m not sure.
I maintain that we are drawn to remember the assholes but that our perspective of their prevalence is skewed. Not sure.