Relationship Should i let him to keep in touch with his ex?

[123r]

Ok i think you are jumping to conclusions.

Someone who jokes about being traumatized by a past...

The thing is...I would've been ok with this...with him being friends with his ex keeping in touch with her and all the other stuffs..as I said once I though about trying to become frieds with her...i also realize that i cant just forbid a person to do certain things and of ocurse to be frineds with people whether its ex or other girls.. i wouldve been ok with everything if he wasn't having all these flashbacks..And talks out of the blue about his past about how badly she treated him...and even comparing me to her saying that i am way better and stuff....so it just makes me question everything...for example as a person who is friends with her ex...did u bring up ur past in ur new relationship?talking about the days you've been together just when u and ur for example new boyfried were together?...so that is the thing i am having problem with...not the fact that he is still friends with her...

 

[James McGregor]

To be honest, it is very simple I think. If he wants to stay in touch and you don't, then he has to decide whether he doesn't care what you think and still do it. If he does then the choice is then yours, do you accept that or not? If not then it has to end, if you do accept it then you move on and don't try to change it. There's nothing to consider, it boils down to that I think

 

[EveHarrington]

Then set a boundary saying that you don’t want to discuss the ex, but you are fine with him being friends with her.

Again, it’s not up to you to decide who he can be friends with.

 

[123r]

Then set a boundary saying that you don’t want to discuss the ex, but you are fine with him bei...

Yes I understand it...thanks for the advice)