Sorry I Have Not Been Here, My Husband Finally Died At Home.

[Deleted member 12723]

I am so sorry that I dropped out of here. I missed you all so much.

For the past few months my husband really went downhill. He had one bad fall and the stress of his daughters attempted suicide took him really into advanced dementia and I had to really help him out a lot.

He finally was in the hospital for some problems for a few days and that was the last time he spoke and made any sense. We brought him him home and had wonderful hospice nurses, twenty four hours a day. He had medication to help him relax and not have anxiety. He had been suffering so long and was in a lot of pain.

The hospice nurses were angels and took really good care of him and our family. He died peacefully in his sleep.

The memorial service is behind me now and it was very touching.

I am just now coming up for air and beginning to start my life over. I have missed you all.

My stepdaughter cut us out of her life. She is really going psycho because my daughter and her husband called 911. She was yelling at the policemen there so they handcuffed her and put her on a gerny with restraints.

She moved out of my daughters home and now lives with her mother in Az.

Some good news, my daughter finally got the permanent restraining order and the police destroyed his forty
eight guns. He has left her alone.

I spend a great deal of time with my daughter and her family.

My husband is at peace and rest now. I really miss him so very much. Well up I rise out of the ashes of a three year ordeal.

 

[Queen Boudica]

((((((Gizmo)))))) So sorry to hear of your husband's death. You did everything to make his last days peaceful and he died at home, loved and cared.

I have thought of you often. I am so glad your daughter and her family are safe and the law has come down on her ex full force. She is so lucky to have a mother like you.

Yes you will rise out of the ashes and a new life of peace for you. Take care.

 

[amethist]

Hugs to you Gizmo, I had been wondering where you were.

Take heart in the fact your husband is now at peace and is not suffering any more. You will miss him, but in time you will start to remember the good time and with a smile.

Glad to hear your daughter got the permanent restraining order.

 

[Tanishq]

*Big Hugs* to you gizmo. You gave your husband lot of support, did your best.

I am glad police sorted out matter for your daughter and your daughter is safe now.

You are in my thoughts.

 

[Loveneverfails]

I am so sorry Giz, but I'm glad you could be with him and that he was getting such good care in his final days. I hope you're taking gentle care of yourself. I'm glad your daughter is safe at last as well. If you need anything, drop me a line.

 

[JustBe]

I'm so sorry that you've had such a rough time Giz. Your husband was a lucky man to have you as such a loving, caring wife. Welcome back (((Gizmo)))

 

[Toria]

Ah Gizmo - I am so sorry to hear that your husband passed away. But as Amethist says, he is at peace now - beyond pain and confusion.

My Gran carried a poem in her purse every day that she cut out of a newspaper once - it was called Do not stand by my grave and weep... It helped me a lot when she died to know that she believed that.

It sounds as if you're managing to stay strong and using your family for support and I wish you strength and healing xxxxx

 

[ms spock]

I wish you the best gizmo.

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. Take care of your self.

I am so pleased that your daughter has a permanent restraining order.

Be gentle with yourself.

 

[intothelight]

(((Gizmo))),

I am sorry for your loss and am keeping you in my thoughts. I am glad to hear that things are going well with your daughter and her case.

Deb

 

[Abstract]

Hi Gizmo,

Sorry to hear this but glad that he has found peace and rest at last. He was indeed very lucky to have someone like you in his life.

I am assuming that it is his daughter that attempted suicide and not yours. There is nothing you can do but let her get on with her life.

Great about your daughter!

Up out of the ashes you come....

 

[cherryblossom]

Hi Gizmo.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of hugs. You sound like you are coping well. Hang on to that inner strength.

It was only the other day, when I thought about you, because you hadn't been around. We've missed you.

It's great news about your daughter. 48 guns - that's beyond scary.

Take care :hug:

 

[Springer80]

Hi Gizmo (((((((((((((((((((((((((:hug:))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Nice to have you back XX