mylunareclipse
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I had never even heard of the word dissociation when few months into therapy when therapist looked at me and said I wasn't a burden and I could rely on her when my body memories started surfacing. I laid on the bathroom floor for days on end feeling everything happening to me all over again and sucking my thumb and crying later. Still I don't think I "switched" per day to a different personality. I was still me in the back, just unable to control myself. I didn't even think I was even dissociating even after all this because I remember things.
Anyhow, where am I going with this? I have read research, but then again don't forget that reading research involves a lot of confirmation bias. However, I think it's best for me to speak from my own experience.
I was 28 when my body memories surfaced md to this day I haven't accepted them or these memories. However, I cannot go around and say I made this up because I didn't choose to get my body locked like that.
You seem to say that diagnosing did is about drinking the cool aid. Let's see did stands for dissociative identity disorder. I.e. If you just read the words it means an person with dissociated identities which cause him or her distress. There is nothing there to suggest that the person doesn't remember switching etc. I think personally what the movement has been about as you say, is to recognize these people who go through life dealing with situations through dissociated identities, i.e. Not a fused identity and furthermore this causes them distress not going to work etc. I think recognizing this can help with trying to deal with the problem. For instance I always thought I was just depressed, but recognizing that I compartemantalize a lot can help me try with this problem as well.
Maybe the DID diagnosis was never meant to represent the weird representation in media etc. maybe that was the problem to begin with. Maybe this diagnosis was indeed hijacked by people who exaggerated it.
I am sure that some people might abuse the meaning and behavior of DID but that doesn't make it invalid. Like there's people that exaggerate other things and don't make them invalid. Or just because they occur to people who are sick doesn't make them invalid. I.e. The fact that some people on drugs see things when high doesn't make psychosis not valid.
From what I have read a least it seems that PTSD as well for instance was instead labeled as people that fought in wars being weak. This meant that once PTSD was recognized there was indeed a rise in people being diagnosed, not because it was a fake diagnosis but because a set of symptoms was being recognized as a set of distress symptoms that presented itself in a population that had undergone trauma.
In past all mental illnesses were perhaps classified as people being crazy. As we evolve, our understanding of our behavior, thought and emotional process evolves as well. Maybe with time we might come to realize that it is this compartementalization in a lot of people be in inner child or same parts of you etc that causes distress, so what's so wrong with labeling that and helping people deal with that if these symptoms are causing them distress?
Mind you I am not even saying I have DID in any shape or form, because hey I don't go around calling myself different names etc. yet perhaps it is this dissociation in different identities that causes me so much distress, yet I must deny it because the stigma says i am not "bad" enough, whatever that means.
Anthony, I know this is your site and I am just a young girl who has been in therapy for only two years and does not know much as much as you about mental illness. However, I find a bit worrying the rigidity with which you approach this subject. Somehow it seems to bother you so much that maybe people are exaggerating symptoms to just get a diagnosis. Why does this bother you so much? After all there is always people exaggerating and lying but this doesn't make things untrue.
Not sure if my post makes so much sense. All I am trying to say is let's keep an open mind, it has never hurt.
Anyhow, where am I going with this? I have read research, but then again don't forget that reading research involves a lot of confirmation bias. However, I think it's best for me to speak from my own experience.
I was 28 when my body memories surfaced md to this day I haven't accepted them or these memories. However, I cannot go around and say I made this up because I didn't choose to get my body locked like that.
You seem to say that diagnosing did is about drinking the cool aid. Let's see did stands for dissociative identity disorder. I.e. If you just read the words it means an person with dissociated identities which cause him or her distress. There is nothing there to suggest that the person doesn't remember switching etc. I think personally what the movement has been about as you say, is to recognize these people who go through life dealing with situations through dissociated identities, i.e. Not a fused identity and furthermore this causes them distress not going to work etc. I think recognizing this can help with trying to deal with the problem. For instance I always thought I was just depressed, but recognizing that I compartemantalize a lot can help me try with this problem as well.
Maybe the DID diagnosis was never meant to represent the weird representation in media etc. maybe that was the problem to begin with. Maybe this diagnosis was indeed hijacked by people who exaggerated it.
I am sure that some people might abuse the meaning and behavior of DID but that doesn't make it invalid. Like there's people that exaggerate other things and don't make them invalid. Or just because they occur to people who are sick doesn't make them invalid. I.e. The fact that some people on drugs see things when high doesn't make psychosis not valid.
From what I have read a least it seems that PTSD as well for instance was instead labeled as people that fought in wars being weak. This meant that once PTSD was recognized there was indeed a rise in people being diagnosed, not because it was a fake diagnosis but because a set of symptoms was being recognized as a set of distress symptoms that presented itself in a population that had undergone trauma.
In past all mental illnesses were perhaps classified as people being crazy. As we evolve, our understanding of our behavior, thought and emotional process evolves as well. Maybe with time we might come to realize that it is this compartementalization in a lot of people be in inner child or same parts of you etc that causes distress, so what's so wrong with labeling that and helping people deal with that if these symptoms are causing them distress?
Mind you I am not even saying I have DID in any shape or form, because hey I don't go around calling myself different names etc. yet perhaps it is this dissociation in different identities that causes me so much distress, yet I must deny it because the stigma says i am not "bad" enough, whatever that means.
Anthony, I know this is your site and I am just a young girl who has been in therapy for only two years and does not know much as much as you about mental illness. However, I find a bit worrying the rigidity with which you approach this subject. Somehow it seems to bother you so much that maybe people are exaggerating symptoms to just get a diagnosis. Why does this bother you so much? After all there is always people exaggerating and lying but this doesn't make things untrue.
Not sure if my post makes so much sense. All I am trying to say is let's keep an open mind, it has never hurt.