Trying to get home
New Here
Dave, sorry to come late to this conversation, but what you said to start this thread struck a chord in me. I found that after coming home from five years in some really shitty places, the most interest most people could work up to try and understand my experience was to ask me either how the food was or how the weather was. As though somehow that would explain the whole thing, without them actually having to listen to anything unpleasant. It was more than a little frustrating, and left me feeling completely isolated.
But I'll tell you this...when people would ask me why I would still go back to Afghanistan at my age, I would always tell them I went for the Joes. I went because, in a time when most 20 year olds were sitting on their Mom's couch playing video games, there were thousands of young men and women - younger than my own sons and daughters - living in conditions most Americans would not believe, working harder than most Americans will ever work, facing danger every day. And wherever I went, they usually had a smile on their face and a sense of humor that those who haven't served will never understood. I went because all those young men and women seemed to me to be the best we have to offer. Which means - you're the best we have to offer.
So thanks to you Spc. Dave for what you did and for who you were. You are not alone.
But I'll tell you this...when people would ask me why I would still go back to Afghanistan at my age, I would always tell them I went for the Joes. I went because, in a time when most 20 year olds were sitting on their Mom's couch playing video games, there were thousands of young men and women - younger than my own sons and daughters - living in conditions most Americans would not believe, working harder than most Americans will ever work, facing danger every day. And wherever I went, they usually had a smile on their face and a sense of humor that those who haven't served will never understood. I went because all those young men and women seemed to me to be the best we have to offer. Which means - you're the best we have to offer.
So thanks to you Spc. Dave for what you did and for who you were. You are not alone.